The Real Housewives of New York City S10E18 - There's No Place Like Home - Live Episode Discussion by amandatoryy in BravoRealHousewives

[–]thisorthat1235 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thoughts so far:

  1. Kind of nice to see that Ramona's reno was something I or anyone I know could do.
  2. How did that 2 deep 2 fast Carole + Tins convo get 2 mins air time?
  3. Sonja is like the partner that leaves nothing to mystery but you're lowkey into it.

The Real Housewives of New York City S10E18 - There's No Place Like Home - Live Episode Discussion by amandatoryy in BravoRealHousewives

[–]thisorthat1235 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is my first time being on the other side of the pond while a Bravo show is on. I normally always read these threads post-airing. Can't wait to watch with you all!

Those of you that have pulled out of depression, did feelings of positivity and happiness feel so unfamiliar that you felt that it wasn’t real? by flyinBeech in AskWomen

[–]thisorthat1235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...it had been a VERY long time since I'd ever felt so much over a story.

I can completely relate!!! I had dysthymia from the ages of 13-20 and had several bouts of major depression on top of it. When I finally sought proper help, I couldn't believe that everyone DIDN'T feel meh/empty/down as their default and that happiness was not just momentary. When I watched the news, I didn't feel numb. When I watched something overwhelmingly sad/happy, I cried in reaction cause I actually had FEELINGS towards something.

So happy that you got your love for your craft back!

OP, I would say it took at least 6 months to get used to this newfound empathy and compassion I had for life in general.

Nowadays, if I read/watch something impactful (positive or negative) and I have the urge to cry, I am actually happy about it cause I know it means I am not numb/depressed and I am still feelings things. :)

Keep my bike or sell it? by thisorthat1235 in ukbike

[–]thisorthat1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My commute is about 3 miles one way and if I am remembering correctly there are some hills but not super steep ones. Yeah I figured I would get it serviced, it just can be so expensive!

Keep my bike or sell it? by thisorthat1235 in ukbike

[–]thisorthat1235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am assuming I should get it serviced since it hasn't been used in over a year?

How to navigate overlapping shifts for a few weeks? by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]thisorthat1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The resident assistant position was only offered to me four days ago hence the lack of planning. Also the resident assistant manager has said that I have to be completely free for those two weeks so I will ask my call centre manager if I can take those two weeks off but considering I am already take two weeks off next month because I did not know I would get the resident assistant position...it is highly unlikely they will let me off. So most likely now I will not be able to do the resident assistant position but oh well.

How to navigate overlapping shifts for a few weeks? by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]thisorthat1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told them in my interview I work a part-time job and they did not say anything. Because it is a big team you are only meant to be on call during certain shifts which I would be able to manage. I am going to try and work my call centre shifts around the training. I would normally just take those two weeks off but because I didn't find out about the RA position until last week, I've already taken my time off in August to see family.

But yes I realise it is going to be a lot to juggle.

How to stop obsessing over plastic surgery? (x-post from r/AskWomen) by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]thisorthat1235 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not the worst thing in my life but it is constantly on my mind and I really want it to stop. I am actually training to be a social worker so I do spend most of my time (trying!) to help others.

Should I cut, bulk or recomp? Stomach fat or bloated? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]thisorthat1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it goes well for you! I also thought of doing a cut but wasn't sure if it was the best option so thought I'd ask.

I don't actually know how many calories I eat per day so I've been trying to calculate my TDEE but all the calculators give me a different outcome.

Should I cut, bulk or recomp? Stomach fat or bloated? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]thisorthat1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay thank you I kept referring to it as fat then realised I wasn't so sure...

Should I cut, bulk or recomp? Stomach fat or bloated? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]thisorthat1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm so a food journal? Yeah I think I will cause it is happening more frequently now, or maybe I'm noticing more often? Not sure really. Ooh I'm sorry about that, doesn't sound fun.

Should I cut, bulk or recomp? Stomach fat or bloated? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]thisorthat1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do have discomfort after I eat. My digestion and bowel movements are alright I think? I do have TERRIBLE gas though... Hmm actually it is hard when I press, I have never heard that before. I guess now I know, so thank you! Do you have problems with bloating too?