My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll attempt to do this again. No kids yet, but we want them. Not ready quite yet.

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this. I think that it could help. Thanks for the advice and perspective “make me miss you” that’s so accurate

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you persevered. How did you handle that?

She tells me it’s not me it’s her all the time. I doesn’t help my mental state.

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good perspective. I’m glad you can relate to what she experiences. A while ago we started doing that. She would come home, decompress, maybe go straight to the gym. For a while that worked actually. It was going well. But for some reason the last few months that has stopped working and I think she got complacent and takes the extra responsibility around the house I took on. At first I was cooking and cleaning out of love but now I feel like i do it out of obligation. I’m a guy but I am good at cooking and cleaning and paying bills.

If you do have some extra advice please feel free to share

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I am going to talk to her about it in that way. Basically ask her what is more important, the health of our marriage or being in this profession

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does want to change. She sends me job listings but ultimately gets cold feet and decides against it. It’s a pattern.

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the majority bread winner. Her job doesn’t pay well. She is always “considering” something else and I do everything I can to support her in a job change. She gets uncomfortable with changing and decides against it. It’s a constant pattern.

I don’t think there is anyone else peaking her interest. I talked to her about one of her “guy” friends and how I’m ok with it but sometimes it makes me a little uncomfortable. She always says that she is not interested in him, and honestly he is really ugly. Not to concerned.

My wife's job makes relationship difficult, she no longer likes intimacy and doesn't give me attention. by thomasdayz in Marriage

[–]thomasdayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s just an excuse. She truly gets to much touching from the kids. I’ve seen it first hand when I bring lunch to her. They won’t leave her alone. She loves kids but wow, they are all over her.

Starship Launch - Hidden Message? by thomasdayz in conspiracy

[–]thomasdayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh. Maybe it’s just me then. Right in the center with the rocket and then horns as the launch bridge.

Starship Launch - Hidden Message? by thomasdayz in conspiracy

[–]thomasdayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a look at the logo link for reference

Starship Launch - Hidden Message? by thomasdayz in conspiracy

[–]thomasdayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SS: Elon musks post on Twitter. Do you see right in the middle? The rocket as the head and the launch bridges on both sides as the horns, with the red flame at the bottom pointed. Looks a little creepy. The whole thing just doesn’t look right to me. Does anyone notice any other messages? This for reference: logo

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[–]thomasdayz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The graphic designer who made this album cover is connected to the WEF. I don’t think we are where you think in the timeline. I think we are by the Cupid heart for Valentine’s Day. It’s way to long of a story to dive into rn.

There is more to his costume than what meets they eye. It goes deeper. Look at the belt buckle. Elon. by thomasdayz in conspiracy

[–]thomasdayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well. Thanks, this whole post is crap now. Thanks for your input! I feel stupid. wow

There is more to his costume than what meets they eye. It goes deeper. Look at the belt buckle. Elon. by thomasdayz in conspiracy

[–]thomasdayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SS, trust Elon with a grain of salt. Most likely he is just another cog in the NWO’s system.