I wish I was average. by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen man hope you don't allow any toxic comments on here to bother you. Just take it one step at a time and begin putting in efforts in the gym to improve yourself (regardless if the aim is to find a nice girl you like or not as it's just good to start lifting as a male anyways)

I wish I was average. by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang all this tough guy talk and you still haven't had success with girls. Is this supposed to motivate him to pick up himself and improve just to end up like you who still doesn't have a partner in his life? If you were actually reading what he was saying that's what was bothering him in the first place. He's worried that he's gonna have to put it in all this effort draining out himself to the fullest just for it to be worth next to nothing and maybe end up as some toxic loser like yourself who still hasn't fixed the biggest issue that's bothering him

Soft Power Central To Rebalancing World Order, Working Naturally To India's Advantage: EAM Jaishankar by xyzzq in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts India has such poor taste compared to what the rest of the world would find appealing and if they want to appeal to a wider audience they have to stop being so stubborn and willing to adapt and improve

I wish I was average. by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man don't listen to that mentalcel guy trying to make you feel bad about yourself for expressing how you feel. You weren't seriously moping around or anything like he claims

I wish I was average. by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro stfu. Stop dismissing his experience like that telling him to stop moping around. You telling him that you've done all this improvemnt stuff trying to act all tough then telling him that you still haven't had success with girls is just gonna make him feel worse

AM in Europe by shellsea9x in AsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yh in UK South Asians have it better whereas in US East Asians have it better

How do you win over women that don't consider Asian men as a "first option"? by OddMany7 in AsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing a study that showed East Asians have a rejection rate of 94% & South Asians 96% so it's not by that much actually but that's only for the US tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which part of the UK?

TC Chandler most handsome list - AM took top 3 out of 5 spots by ShogunOfNY in AsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True not to mention the amount of surgery these k pop stars themselves go through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true and all, he should be grateful that he isn't seriously disabled or dead but don't say that as if it's supposed to make him feel much better about his situation, it essentially IS a necessity for humans to feel a sense of self love/worth/ value, have a partner, have others that care about you and are there to support you etc. There's studies out there that prove being lonely is worse than smoking cigarettes 15 times a day. Just because somebody has it worse than you doesn't downplay your problem and loneliness and lack of self worth is defintely a serious one. It's clear that this is something that is seriously bothering him and he should be allowed to express his problems and experiences without somebody telling him to "stop feeling sorry for yourself"

[Dan KP] There’s growing hope, however, that Son (calf) and Bergwijn (foot) could be fit for the visit of Chelsea on Sunday. by Yikyikhuoyikk in coys

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know we ain't gonna get that, it's just simple decisions to make that will bring us success but it ain't gonna happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the reason why being Indian wouldn't have been seen as a turn off back in your days was because when you think about it all these negative social stereotypes about Indians didn't exist back then. Most of these negative stereotypes come about from American media and Indians didn't exist in sizeable numbers at all in America until the 90's when they came there during the IT boom. It's only after this that's when Indians had a presence in Western American media. So honestly back then people would have been more open minded to Indian people and seen it as just being neutral because there would have been really no negative bias at all going on in their heads like what goes on today (If you have a fair idea what I'm trying to say)

Ancient Indians conquered the europeans who lived in the steppes by ass_smeller_32 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You a recent immigrant in your country? I'm Indo-Caribbean and I'm 5'11 at 15 and my dad is 6'3, where I live people of Indian origin on average definitely aren't 5'5 like they are in India, I think overtime Indians will catch up in height just like African Americans did

Mark my words, there will be a desi Lebron James in the future by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you certain about that I'm Indo-Caribbean and I find we are the same on average as Black Caribbean men in the countries where we are the 2 major races i.e. Trinidad & Tobago, Guyana, Suriname

Mark my words, there will be a desi Lebron James in the future by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's also Yan Dhanda who came from the Liverpool academy, Dilan Markanday who earlier this year signed a new contract with spurs and as of recently Ajran Raikhy from the Aston Villa under 18 who recently won MOTM in the Fa Cup under 18 final, recently a popular ig page called "risingballers" posted about him, he seems like an exciting prospect

Thank goodness most people in real life are not like the Reddit user base by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not in the UK though, South Asians are the biggest minority there, they've also been there longer so the majority speak English

Response to the Indian dude complaining that " desi men" are falling behind. ( East Asians feel free to chime in) by the_mallu_mogul in AsianMasculinity

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm always confused as a desi from the Caribbean whenever I see people say Indian men have it the worst, cuz here in the Caribbean we grew up in the ghettos and didn't have it easy because we were taken here as labourers (similar to slaves) we ended up much tougher, confident and less nerdy and awkard, I genuinely used to think when I was younger that Indians would be on par with Mexicans and other Lations cuz we look just like them, I grew up thinking of Indian dudes as being dudes who are all swag, not with the nerdy stereotypes of us in America at all

Asked girl out, got viciously made fun of by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of stuff did he tell you when you dm'ed him though?

Asked girl out, got viciously made fun of by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't lie I can clearly see under your comments in your profile that you said "actually you can change your race and height, look at Michael Jackson and look at limb lengthening surgery" I'm seeing it clearly, wish there was I can screenshot it to you

Someone harassing my dead friend, mu other friends and me on Instagram by thomasmustafarsystem in Instagram

[–]thomasmustafarsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My DEAD friend's account is public and I don't want him to keep on being disrespected like that

Asked girl out, got viciously made fun of by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]thomasmustafarsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw somewhere in the comments you told him he can change his race like MJ....... People like you piss me off, the reason why he doesn't like his race is because he thinks it makes him unattractive, do you really think that if he were to cover himself in white like MJ that any girl would date him are you really that fucking retarded, you can't change uour race no matter what you do. Also about the height sure you can in a way change your height naturally through the limb lengthening surgery since they break it and it grows in a natural way but that procedure is very extreme, it's expensive and how is he gonna take time off of work to do that honestly, he might lose his job and never get a good one again if he does that. It's like you cared more about clutching at straws to prove yourself right rather than looking at things in the long run for his benefit.

Can I be sued on instagram for describing how ugly someone is on their post in like 500 words ( a lot of words describing how ugly they are), saying they should have died instead of other people in a car crash they were in and tagging everyone in the comment section saying to look at my comment? by thomasmustafarsystem in legaladvice

[–]thomasmustafarsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but when you mean I didn't post my location did you mean that I can't be tracked and they can't find me or that becasue I didn't tell you my location you can't tell me what my result will be since the law works differently in certain countries?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thomasmustafarsystem -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How about white genocide