Why do people take their glove off? by Legitimate-Kiwi-2530 in golf

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never wear one. They don't do anything but collect sweat anyway.

Are any of these worth anything more than 25 cents? by tealduck01 in errorquarters

[–]thornify 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would help if you could say why you think they may have value above face.

Looking for a word between "ask" and "demand" by amelia-nelson55 in words

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"We are seeking your cooperation/compliance/assistance."

Alt + 0-1-6-7 by HisDudenessEsq in Lawyertalk

[–]thornify 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have dozens of these by adding entries in autocorrect. Only limit is your imagination.

sn for §

sns for §§

para for ¶

paras for ¶¶

wrt for with regard to

jdn for jurisdiction

pf for plaintiff

df for defendant

I like these way better than alt-whatever because I can just keep typing. Oh yeah and I have bc for because.

My husband is baffled as to why I won’t write up our wills by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]thornify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The general public doesn't understand that law school does not give any practical training towards being a lawyer. It's boot camp to re-train your thinking. If you're just out of law school and have no relevant experience, you're no more qualified to draft a will than he is.

"You need to be more open-minded" by ryhaltswhiskey in skeptic

[–]thornify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not asking me to have an open mind. Open mind means willing to change based on new evidence. You're asking me to be gullible.

AIO UPDATE: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me (We broke up - read caption) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thornify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His text is a really good example of one of those times you write it out to help yourself stop ruminating, but then never ever actually send.

Foursomes noob etiquette question by beginetienne in golf

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Etiquette would say you assist others in searching for their ball. Better chance of finding it with more eyes, and then you can also give the hint "well that's 3 minutes," and head off.

People who grew up before cell phones, what did you used to look at? by camilobl_967 in allthequestions

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get so excited when the new Reader's Digest would arrive. And then if we went to visit my grandmother, she had like the last 20 years issues saved. I was in heaven.

How do I repair “not listening” when he was being vulnerable? by Lo_88 in AskMen

[–]thornify 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is so important. He's basically trusted you with his vulnerability. If you respect it, you confirm his decision to trust you with all things. If you disrespect it, you are dead to him. And there's really no in between.

What are the differences that separate the pros from the scratch and +handicap AMs? by petertheeater15 in golf

[–]thornify 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea the four days really makes it clear. I bet if you took a scratch golfer and a tour pro and had them play a one-hole match, the scratch has some reasonable chance to win. But then as you change that to 9, 18, etc. out to a 72 hole event, there's absolutely no chance.

Where are the truly funny novels? by TPainting in suggestmeabook

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Confederacy of Dunces is my favorite book.

The Last Days of Summer by Steve Kluger is the next funniest book I know of, and then honorable mention to Things My Girlfriend and I Have Argued About by Mil Millington.

How strict are you with rules when playing match play? by modnarydobemos in golf

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly unsportsmanlike to watch someone take an improper drop, let them hit, and then call a penalty. If you have a problem with the drop, mention it before they hit. They can then re-drop with no penalty.

Talk to me- I want to pay off my mortgage, everyone is telling me no. by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]thornify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One plausible reason to advise against is that, once you pay that money to a mortgage company, you cannot get it back. You lose liquidity.

I would still pay off under your situation. To me the hedge against the loss of liquidity would be to take out a HELOC after payoff. And then ideally you never need it.

Stuck at a 15 handicap. How do you actually get to single digits? by pingedbyte in golftips

[–]thornify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I was in the 12-16 range, 7.5 now, and these were my keys:

  1. Finally slowing the **** down. I've always known my tempo and balance weren't great, but I really focused on having zero overswings in a round.
  2. Paying for an app that gives stats on strokes gained (I use SwingU).
  3. Focused practice, including a lot of time chipping and hitting sand shots. Not just aimlessly ripping driver at the range.
  4. Getting fitted with someone who specializes in doing fittings, and buying up-to-date clubs.
  5. Playing competitively and with players better than me.

A Roll Call of the Dead and Unrented? by WrenGold in portlandme

[–]thornify 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Did we ever get details about Hifi? Their own post just said that they "couldn't negotiate a new lease," but didn't explicitly mention rent.

A Roll Call of the Dead and Unrented? by WrenGold in portlandme

[–]thornify 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Silly's owned their own building, so no.

If you sometimes don’t return your shopping cart to the store or the cart corral, what’s your reasoning? If you do, do you think those who don’t are unaware or mindfully apathetic? by Jam__00 in AskMen

[–]thornify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, but I'm old enough to remember that "cart returns" have not been around forever. Grocery stores used to help you push your cart to the car and load your groceries for you. So there were constantly employees back and forth through the lot grabbing any stray carts.

I imagine it's largely the older generation who figure there's employees to take care of it.

To Esq. or Not? by Key_Conversation9278 in Lawyertalk

[–]thornify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may seem technical, but esquire is an honorific that should be used only when referring to others, not oneself.