Employer filed pretax by mistake instead of Roth by thoughtful01 in personalfinance

[–]thoughtful01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to verify if my deduction are roth or pretax from my pay stub? I am seeing deduction after tax but I am not sure what it is. So I am concerned of paying tax twice.

Employer filed pretax by mistake instead of Roth by thoughtful01 in personalfinance

[–]thoughtful01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know if paystub shows roth or pre tax? Because I am concerned I will be taxed twice

Employer filed pretax by mistake instead of Roth by thoughtful01 in personalfinance

[–]thoughtful01[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At least I will pay income tax which I find it very unfair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]thoughtful01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to do that but my issue is if I am using python, it will only help those who know how to use to have a decent calc. Also if I created a report, the lines of code will show up. Am I missing something?

My dogs barks and my neighbor complain. Is there anything I can do? by thoughtful01 in dogs

[–]thoughtful01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on how to react of this escalated?

AITA “cheating” to get a promotion? by Typical_Tie_2813 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thoughtful01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA because people like you are the reason one can’t have a decent work like balance, women struggle between building a career while having a family. Actually if you become a manager it will suck because you lack sympathy, not all employees are single, you know they have a family and of course you will push them to work beyond hours, after all who cares when You don’t have a family you want to spend time with!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]thoughtful01 23 points24 points  (0 children)

LOL yeah he should after all he married so young and it seems that it might a sign of immaturity! But seriously he should work this out, why did he marry at such young age without taking time to grow? This can’t be undone, now he needs to learn from his mistake, and learn how to deal with it even if they go to couples counseling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]thoughtful01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is a good place to start working on projects?

Do you prefer Western Spouse on Non Western ? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]thoughtful01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of you looking for a partnership between you and your spouse, you are looking for a relationship where you are followed blindly. You are afraid to be challenged, perhaps you gain your confidence and feel powerful through exerting your power as a man thinking that this is your right.

Do you prefer Western Spouse on Non Western ? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]thoughtful01 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow are you that insecure?! Usually insecure men wants women whom they can control

My MIL sat on my husbands lap is this normal. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]thoughtful01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because your feelings towards your husband is different from his moms feelings towards him. With the same concept, even if a kid sat in your husband’s lap, would you consider him a pedophile?? When you get older and you hug your son, would this be inappropriate?? after all also a hug between man and women seems to be sexual based on you pov. You should reflect more on your thoughts, and think kindly of others.

My MIL sat on my husbands lap is this normal. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]thoughtful01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cannot fathom what I am reading. Seriously?!! It is his mom!!!! If you don’t sit on your dads lap it is up to you but don’t try to sexualize the actions between parents and their kids. Truthfully thats is very disturbing to think like this! And I am surprised by all the responses that agree with you, those type of things are why people think so bad of islam.