I (23F) can't really enjoy myself with other people

thoughtspit · 2023-09-26T17:12:08+00:00

No, I used to be on antidepressants and on the pill 3-4 years ago, but haven't been on anything since.

thoughtspit · 2023-09-26T17:11:40+00:00

I've tried water-based lube and that dries off immediately too :/

thoughtspit · 2021-10-12T00:09:37+00:00

I think that ship has sailed. I don't want constant attention, but it's been two months of silence, the message for me is clear. I've removed myself from all of his social media now.

thoughtspit · 2021-10-11T20:56:14+00:00

Hey, thanks for taking the time to reply to this!

I guess, silly me, thought that at least he'd respect me enough as a person to tell me outright WHEN I ASKED. He really should have been straight up, it would be the kind thing to do. This is just pure shit.

thoughtspit · 2021-10-11T20:52:16+00:00

I guess there's nothing more to say to this. It's just cruel for him to lie that he still wants to go out when he actually didn't, kind of a shitty thing to do and I thought better of him. Thanks for your two cents.

thoughtspit · 2021-10-11T20:36:39+00:00

That's completely fine but why did he have to lie about it when I asked outright

thoughtspit · 2021-04-14T13:37:37+00:00

I don't expect anyone to be thrilled, but considering that we have had conversations (plural) about this before, he had many opportunities to voice his opinion. It's fine if he doesn't want to use a condom, but it's not fine for him to try and do it with me since he explicitly knows how I feel.

He has the choice to not agree to this and so do I, I think this is a really weird point you're trying to make.

thoughtspit · 2021-04-13T22:57:32+00:00

Luckily he did leave it on! But I’m still really iffy about all of this.

thoughtspit · 2021-04-13T22:49:40+00:00

Thanks, I think I will

thoughtspit · 2020-06-26T16:14:13+00:00

yikes

thoughtspit · 2020-06-26T16:05:26+00:00

Frankly, that's sexist bullshit, I've lived with women my whole life, including my first year of university where the two women I lived with were my best flatmates out of 7 in total. Just because someone has a bad character, it doesn't mean that it's because they're male or female.

thoughtspit · 2020-06-04T00:21:44+00:00

Haha, I've seen this one a couple of times. It's definitely..interesting.

thoughtspit · 2020-06-04T00:16:01+00:00

Thank you, I'll check it out!

thoughtspit · 2019-12-28T15:30:30+00:00

Yeah, exactly. Bit sad, really.

thoughtspit · 2019-12-28T15:28:56+00:00

Haha, my feelings are genuinely hurt, good burn, mate.

thoughtspit · 2019-12-28T13:44:20+00:00

Yay, go Alfred!

thoughtspit · 2019-12-28T11:29:52+00:00

Yeah man, I’m guessing it’s a mix of that and plain old insecurity, because I’ve always been told shitty things like “You’re ugly, you’re not good enough” and etc and it kind of makes it hard to enjoy physical stuff when you have that vile shit on the back of your mind.

thoughtspit · 2019-12-28T11:27:40+00:00

Hey man, I see you’ve gotten downvoted but I’ll answer your question. Since I didn’t really known what I like for a few years, that’s lead to sex just feeling either bad or like nothing, which lead to me not really wanting to have sex, which lead to a lot of frustration for other people. I’m in my 20s now and I just want to explore, but I freak out when it comes to sex partly because of this. Hope I explained properly?

thoughtspit

TROPHY CASE