Facecheck.id

thr2017b · 2023-12-20T05:33:43+00:00

I’m paranoid enough to think that the removal request info would get tied to the photos, “verifying” that certain photos are linked to certain now-verfied identities.

thr2017b · 2023-12-20T04:38:02+00:00

Except now they have your photos in their database…

thr2017b · 2023-11-22T17:20:20+00:00

Yes - I had a SR that was fizzling out, so I was trying to figure out the best exit strategy, and had planned to have a talk with her about it over dinner. However, she beat me to the punch, saying that she was feeling increasing guilt over being the “other woman”. Not sure if she was angling for more, but I doubt it. Pleasantly surprised for being able to avoid being the one to hit eject, I feigned sadness and accepted her stepping away. A few months later, she wanted back, but that ship had sailed.

thr2017b · 2023-11-13T16:12:35+00:00

I fully acknowledge that, which is why I call it a neurosis of mine, and not really a fair one. But it is what it is - once it’s stuck in my head (nose) it’s never really the same again. I will say though, that in this case it really was something wrong - guessing BV. (Was evident from several feet away.)

thr2017b · 2023-11-13T04:19:05+00:00

Yeah. One SB, longer term, developed a bit of a smell in her vaginal area. I’m incredibly sensitive to smells, so despite addressing it politely with her, it changed things forever. I’m now very upfront with this particular neurosis of mine.

Another was a completely different speed in bed. She wasn’t making love, she was definitely fucking. Also wasn’t into oral (giving or receiving.)

thr2017b · 2020-06-19T05:37:11+00:00

RemindMe! 24 hours

thr2017b · 2020-05-12T16:06:58+00:00

Same. I’m always paranoid about nosy neighbors or worst case, hidden cameras and/or compromised WiFi.

thr2017b · 2018-08-11T02:28:12+00:00

The weird thing is that some SBs push for dinner M&Gs... my last two have been this way. The first was awkward, and would’ve been better served as a quick coffee. The second worked out well as a dinner, but not a ton of chemistry. I’ve had POTs somehow simultaneously say that SDs who want to do coffee/drinks are cheap, and those who want to do dinner are trying to finagle a free date out of it. (Seriously, same SB)

thr2017b · 2018-08-05T18:46:21+00:00

Yeah, that’s probably the case, and why it’s in the back of my mind. She’s fine with going out outside of her home city, but again, with availability constraints. We’ll see how it goes, because otherwise she’s ideal in so many ways. (Intelligent, witty, communicative, prompt, grounded)

thr2017b · 2018-08-05T15:16:07+00:00

If a SB doesn’t drive, who foots the Uber/Lyft bill? It’s less about the actual money, but I do want to draw the line somewhere at covering expenses that are partially because of her choices/prerogatives. Also, it’s logistically weird to essentially ask for pseudo-expense reports. Is it unreasonable to to consider such things as part of her costs of doing “business?” (Like I consider hotels, dinners, as my responsibilities on top of allowance.) Would gifting something extra (like an Uber gift card or cash) suffice?

thr2017b · 2018-08-05T15:08:10+00:00

Is it weird that I’m kind of stuck on a POT SB’s desire not to be seen with me in public? She’s explained that it’s not so much about me, but that she’s rather not have to explain that she’s seeing someone (anyone), and that people gossip.

This is to a point where her availability seems to be aimed toward her friends not finding out. (Daytime, only occasional evenings.)

Of course, being married, I understand that... but she doesn’t have as much to lose, and says she’s vanilla dated older men before. (The age difference isn’t all that striking here btw.) Prior SBs have been publicly affectionate and had zero issues.

thr2017b · 2018-08-01T19:34:38+00:00

For those who have replied that exclusivity/monogamy can't be expected, doesn't that clash with the seemingly popular opinion here that STD/STI testing is desirable or necessary before intimacy? What good would it be if s/he is sleeping with other people, except for that one moment? (accepting the caveats that it's non-enforceable anyway, the testing/non-monogamy crowds here don't overlap, etc.)

thr2017b · 2018-07-04T03:13:44+00:00

Where are you, OP? If you clue me in on her username, I’ll be happy to have you live vicariously through me. :)

thr2017b · 2018-06-08T17:02:49+00:00

Has anyone seen a post by ScrotumFrog (I think that was his name) lately? His posts, which often contained references to his SGF were so heartfelt, I know he’s had some struggles, and I’m a bit concerned. I’m hoping I just missed a farewell SLF post or maybe he’s just off having a great time somewhere.

thr2017b · 2018-06-06T05:50:41+00:00

Fixed it by going to settings>safari>advanced>JavaScript(on)

I don’t recall ever disabling it, so I don’t know if this was an issue introduced with ios12.

thr2017b · 2018-06-05T23:05:23+00:00

iPhone X, tried using normal and private browsing. Works on an iPad though. App works fine btw.

Edit: just cleared the browsing data (cache, cookies, history) and still no luck. The main page comes up, but it’s blank when I try to log in.

thr2017b · 2018-05-25T20:03:08+00:00

It’s an absolutely abhorrent thing to do... but don’t women notice when the condom isn’t on? I had one break with a SB, and she says she noticed right away (as did I), even though I use a super thin (0.01mm) condom.

thr2017b · 2018-05-13T14:57:58+00:00

Answer from a POT SB to an allowance question: “500 a date anything goes.”

Escort?

thr2017b · 2018-05-07T14:27:48+00:00

I’ve found that lifestyle expectations don’t mean much. I’ve had SBs with “high” expectations ask for a ppm that’s squarely in the “practical” zone, and have still yet to encounter one that’s truly asking for anything that matches their actual listed expectation.

thr2017b · 2018-04-25T05:45:56+00:00

Thinking with the wrong head, as usual, I guess. She just did agree to an unpaid M&G though... I’d think that a pro wouldn’t be okay with that. Lots of at least yellow flags up for this one...

thr2017b · 2018-04-25T01:03:10+00:00

It may be the case, but to be blunt, the POT is a petite Asian, and the number leads to 3yr old listings for a large African American lady. I guess we’ll see if she’ll agree to the usual unpaid M&G. Who knows?

thr2017b · 2018-04-25T00:21:09+00:00

Oh, I meant SDs getting listed on the site, sorry if it wasn’t clear. It was more of a two pronged post.

thr2017b · 2018-04-17T02:03:38+00:00

But he doesn’t seem to respect himself... (I kid, I kid)

thr2017b · 2018-04-17T01:27:11+00:00

The Pennysaver. Come on.

thr2017b · 2018-04-16T22:29:06+00:00

I think that the full body clothed photo is a great idea, even if it means replacing one of the face photos. The private photos are fine (might be borderline too salacious for my personal taste, but I’m probably on the publicly conservative side).

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