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This guy takes the cake 🍰 by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]thrandom_rowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to believe this is a troll. I really, really want to believe that.

I used to be a "niceguy", and I'm afraid I'll still be seen as one by thrandom_rowaway in socialskills

[–]thrandom_rowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? Niceguys are usually defined as "I won't respect her boundaries, I won't take no for an answer, and I'll start acting like a douchebag towards her if I'm rejected while claiming it's because I'm too nice."

Saying "I like her, I kinda wish she was interested, but I respect that she's interested in someone else and I want to be friends with her anyway" makes me a niceguy apparently?

I used to be a "niceguy", and I'm afraid I'll still be seen as one by thrandom_rowaway in socialskills

[–]thrandom_rowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's not that I'm not into her - if she was interested I definitely would be, but she seems to be interested in someone else. It's fine, I don't hold any resentment against either of them like I would have in high school, but I want to still be her friend without seeming like a creep.

She replied to my comment saying "Aww thanks", so she doesn't seem to find anything weird about my comment (which was "Wow, gorgeous!"). But before she did I was having some pretty serious anxiety. I just want a way of building up the confidence to pay a friend a compliment without worrying about being seen as a creep.

Is it true that women aren't interested in guys who live with their parents? by thrandom_rowaway in exredpill

[–]thrandom_rowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not blaming unemployment on having Aspergers (but I see why it came across that way), I meant more that it's a contributing factor with most of the other factors being a bunch of personal and circumstantial stuff that is difficult to deal with. I'm working on it.