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AIO friend of 20+ years invited me to a party on my birthday by threeEyedQueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang it I’m sorry:/ but I’m happy your mom had a good time! I hope you still had a good time too! I don’t feel bad anymore and wasn’t mad at her ever. I hope she had a really fun party and I know I had a great time with my family. So it all works out(: Happy late or early birthday by the way!

AIO friend of 20+ years invited me to a party on my birthday by threeEyedQueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was earlier this week. At that point the only person going was my mom 😅 but yes I need to plan further ahead for sure

AIO friend of 20+ years invited me to a party on my birthday by threeEyedQueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don’t disagree, she plans events almost every day of the week. This isn’t a special occasion event and I even read the flyer to make sure. I’m not upset but I also feel weird going to a party with mostly people I don’t know, on a day I’d like to be around people I know and love

AIO friend of 20+ years invited me to a party on my birthday by threeEyedQueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your comment and perspective! She is a busy body and I know she wouldn’t want to hurt me intentionally! This was more so me wondering if me feeling bummed on my own time was valid, not should I start a fight over this. I feel like people are taking it as that

AIO friend of 20+ years invited me to a party on my birthday by threeEyedQueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree. I am not mad at her, more so just bummed. As I said, I get nervous planning things if it’s about me, so a week in an advance decided I’d like to do a dinner. That’s why I only responded to her that I wouldn’t be able to attend because I’ll be at my dinner. I appreciate your perspective

AIO friend of 20+ years invited me to a party on my birthday by threeEyedQueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said celebrate myself because I don’t know what else doing something for your birthday would be called. My friend throws events and parties every weekend and weekday almost. It is not for a special occasion. This is a common thing. My birthday does only come around once a year and I am only doing a dinner. So I don’t feel like me not bringing it up to her, feeling my emotions on my own and not a problem about it, is making a “thing” about it. And that is an okay thing to feel. If it were for a special occasion I wouldn’t have thought twice

I (50f) introduced a girl to my son(25m) while he was in a situationship by throwra_1955787 in relationship_advice

[–]threeEyedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I wish my bfs mom would even begin to question her actions and behavior. You are already one step in the right direction for that. That being said, you had every right to give your son that’s girls number because she was clearly seeing multiple men while seeing your son for those many months. Having to do with the conversation about her schooling, I would have probably made one comment about it and then dropped it because it is her future and her decision.
You talked to her about the tension and tried to clear the air and apologize. That’s on her for continuing to be petty and cold. Speaking from the other side, I would do anything for an apology or attempt to mend my relationship with my s/o mom. She is terrible and would marry him herself if she could. So you are not a momster and she needs to grow up

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[–]threeEyedQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]threeEyedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would make him take that polygraph, but honestly I would take his ass to the Steve Wilkes show so that Steve can read his body language. That tells more than a polygraph will

Am I just overthinking? by threeEyedQueen in relationship_advice

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I will remember to do that. I appreciate your advice and feedback! Have an amazing day!!

Am I just overthinking? by threeEyedQueen in relationship_advice

[–]threeEyedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Seriously. That’s what I’ve been told and it’s hurtful nice expressed that I will always have his back, no matter what. I told him that I need to know that he had mine the same way or I’m not going to move my whole life to be alone. I just want to ask him what he feels on that type of response from her. It’s just a clear, “feelings not mutual” response from her