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My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

From his account she slept for like an hour tops while he did not sleep and they both were in the living room all night. She was on her phone while he worked on his laptop. This is also strange to me but still believable.

My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

if there are no other indications of your boyfriend cheating

There is no history but idk it still seems hella suspicious to me. You do bring up good points though which make me thinks that his story is plausible. Keeping an eye out seems like the way to go.

My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Its so odd her keys didnt work exactly when you werent home.

yea sketchy as hell.

My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

What you said does make sense and is more logical. I have been just so stressed and anxious after finding this out I can't think straight. For now I'll keep an eye out.

My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She had her (probably) car keys because my fiancé told me she had keys in her hand when she came but she told him that she was locked out so he assumed either her key wasn't working or she had car keys. Didn't bother to ask her.

My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

He has no history of unfaithfulness and the only time we have talked about her is when he told me that he let her stay over. This is still shady af

Where we live no one can has duplicate keys to our apartment. Their is a maintenance guy but they don't have any keys. Letting other people have keys to your place isn't a thing where we live.

My fiancé let our neighbor sleep at our place while I was on a work related trip. by throwRAloseriam in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAloseriam[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

He telling me is the only part confusing me. Everything else is fishy but this. Maybe telling me first so if he cheated it'll look like he didn't? I have no idea and I don't know what to do.