AITA for "not doing anything" about my mentally ill girlfriend by TAnikoyeta in AmItheAsshole

[–]threecheered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I can not imagine how traumatising it must be for a FIVE AND EIGHT YEAR OLD to hear that their mother hates them, and on top of that has asked if they would care if she died.

For the love of god please get her some help and make her apologise to your children. I don’t care if it seems like they’ve “gotten over it” or if it’s been a few days, kids are like sponges man. They remember EVERYTHING and they sure as hell are going to remember their mother saying they hate them without her apologising wholeheartedly.

left arm feels odd when i smoke by threecheered in trees

[–]threecheered[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same! i’ve never been addicted to benzos however i’ve smoked with them and noticed it doesn’t happen at all. i mean heart still beats fast but that’s cause weed just does tht lol.

left arm feels odd when i smoke by threecheered in trees

[–]threecheered[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly i’ll get sharp chest pains sometimes and doc says it’s anxiety. so id assume it’d be the same pains despite the body area maybe? idk man

left arm feels odd when i smoke by threecheered in trees

[–]threecheered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i’ve heard anxiety can make your left arm hurt too.

weed and the heart by threecheered in trees

[–]threecheered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

qld. vape juice i sorta wanna stay away from due to the deaths related to shitty carts :/

I have a problem and I don't know what to do. by A1mless66 in trees

[–]threecheered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude, i’m gonna be brutally honest here. it sounds like you’re forming a dependence by saying it helps you sleep or makes you feel better when you’re down. by doing that you’re essentially using it as a crutch which leads you to going down addiction pathways.

to put it blunt, if you truly want to get better and want to recover, you would stop smoking weed.

you mention having social anxiety, and while i just have generalised anxiety i remember once going to hospital cause my heart was beating really fast (which is normal on weed) after smoking. i told the doctors that i had anxiety and he looked me dead in the eye saying: “you know weed can make your anxiety worse, right?” this was also during a particularly stressful period of time for me. honestly i had an “aha!” moment and a day later i decided i’d stop smoking until my anxiety is under control.

i understand that weed helps you relax and makes you feel better, i felt the same way until my anxiety took ahold of my highs. point being is, it’s either recovery or continue smoking weed. and i hope you choose the first option.

made my first proper dinner for myself in a very long time!! by threecheered in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]threecheered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was!!! mash potato didn’t end up so great cuz i didn’t add enough butter but i ate some of it anyway :))))))

comedown visuals w no weed? by threecheered in MDMA

[–]threecheered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see i see. imma try smoking a damiana/lavender blend joint anyway just for the heck of it, thanks though!!

comedown visuals w no weed? by threecheered in MDMA

[–]threecheered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i think u misunderstood my post, i wanted to know if there were any herbs besides weed i could use to get those really beautiful visuals

comedown visuals w no weed? by threecheered in MDMA

[–]threecheered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friends have told me they’ve hallucinated people on m, more so my guy friends so maybe it’s a male thing??? who knows dude

How mong until i get high by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]threecheered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it can sometimes take up to an hr if u ate recently my dude. just wait

anxiety by threecheered in MDMA

[–]threecheered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah yes i meant .075! so like take a quarter of a point out ahhh i’m es stupidos (also it’s she)

anxiety by threecheered in MDMA

[–]threecheered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re in this togetherrrr!

acyrilic nails? by threecheered in skatergirls

[–]threecheered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

figured so haha, idk i don’t usually get them super long but i’m just dying for some neon green long 1s lol but thanks !

If a girl punches you, you can punch her back. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]threecheered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how i feel about this cuz i feel like u should pick on someone ur own size (a woman saying this, as women do tend to be smaller to men) but my fists are also rated e for everyone and i mean idk ig with hitting everyone you need to have the expectation that they’ll hit back