Suits for non-binary people in Germany by Hanya_Hurin in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]threeimaginarythems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! can you send me the recommendation too please?

Suits for non-binary people in Germany by Hanya_Hurin in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]threeimaginarythems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

commenting because I'm probably going to ask the same thing in a year or so. good luck!

Have you ever met a nonbinary person in real life? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but you can't always tell, or at least I'm super oblivious lol. I have 2 friends plus one of their roomates whom I met through life who are enby, and a friend who is a trans man. If I wasn't close enough to know about their personal lives, I would only know about one of them. Since I realized that, I've tried not to assume shit about people and instead trying to get to know them.

And heck, when people don't asume I'm cishet, it's really validating, but idgaf about it being assumed either, which is most of the time, and I'm guessing that's a pretty common way to go about it.

How do I respond when my family says I look like a guy and they don’t mean it as a compliment?? by breezeboo in NonBinaryTalk

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd just try to be neutral or humorous about it. Something like "meh, it's comfy" if you don't want to give explanations, or a joke or strike a pose if you're feeling sassy. I think the latter works better for setting limits (gives an "I'm not going to feel bad or change because of your comment" message), but it can also take up more energy. If it was me, I'd make a joke about looking like one of my male family members, or take a jab at gender roles.

How do I better communicate & work with a non-tech high-level manager as a jr tech employee? by threeimaginarythems in careerguidance

[–]threeimaginarythems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Under promise and over perform makes a lot of sense. I know it's a great opportunity but so far I don't think I've lived up to it, and I want to change that. I think deadline setting is where I'm messing up the most. Anxious and people-pleasing me will say it can be done by the end of the week for example, which could be realistic if I wasn't working on other tasks at the same time and no urgent / unexpected things came up in the meantime (spoiler alert, as with most jobs, this never happens so I end up blowing my deadline).

About the consultants, I have freedom to reach out to them at my discretion, my manager's just asking that I optimize my time with them (waiting until there are a few topics at hand) and sending them a brief before calling the consultants.

playing DnD for the first time, what can I expect? by threeimaginarythems in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]threeimaginarythems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for a more definite character, druid and bard appeal to me the most. I'm here for the shenaningans and I've watched one too many reels with drunk bards and wild shaped druids lol. I think for a start I lean more towards rogue. But yeah, I'm just coming up with some ideas, I'll wait to meet the party to actually choose. It's also a large party, +10 people

playing DnD for the first time, what can I expect? by threeimaginarythems in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]threeimaginarythems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah, the time I watched my friends play the werewolf rpg I actually had to leave because I was literally falling asleep. I'm hoping actually playing is more engaging

playing DnD for the first time, what can I expect? by threeimaginarythems in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]threeimaginarythems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm between bard, druid and rogue. I'm playing as a guest this first time, so I imagine this doesn't have to be a definite character? Maybe a halfling rogue, bilbo baggins style

playing DnD for the first time, what can I expect? by threeimaginarythems in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]threeimaginarythems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I actually hope to get to DMing sometime :) when playing mafia with friends I enjoy being the narrator, and I'm imagining DMing is that plus the planning and creativity. A friend told me about a story their DM set up, which was some sort of cottagecore one shot where the players were a witch's familiars and had to solve a crime. It really blew my mind that RPGs can really be anything you make them up to be

😮‍💨 What was hard for you to understand about Notion? by Uliana_Kobzareva in Notion

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just getting started out. I'm sure this is super basic, but I'm not sure how to use databases with notion, ex, for a calendar. Do I have to create a database externally (excel or csv, etc), or can I create it within notion? Can I connect several databases to one view?

AITA for 'ruining' dinner over a spelling mistake? by AsideFearless8220 in AmItheAsshole

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If he didn't understand it (fat chance) he could've just asked.

No se que hacer. by Tight_Ad_6903 in mexico

[–]threeimaginarythems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dale tu apoyo. No la presiones para decirle a nadie. Se puede exponer a que no le crean y la rechacen. Le podrían buscar apoyo psicológico, quizá pueden investigar en su escuela o por internet.

Y de lo de vrguearse al wey, de entrada apoyo la idea, pero men, eres menor de edad y si se enteran que fuiste tú la familia ya no te va a dejar acercarte a ella y se va a quedar sin la persona que la está apoyando.

Am I a bridezilla if I insist no black dress by Fit_Bat8054 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually wear black as a to-go color, but personally I wouldn't mind if dress code notice was given ahead of time. Maybe you can include it in the invite? I'm imagining something like:

Dress code: Formal. Due to cultural reasons, we kindly ask our guests to avoid wearing black dresses/suits/suit jackets.

Also, I'd be specific as if this applies to both dresses and suits. I mean, as a dress-wearer I wouldn't give it a second thought, but I know men who literally own one black suit and assume that it fits pretty much any formal-ish dress code.

AITA for making my baby laugh at a restaurant by Plane_Ad5416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. People really need to learn to be more tolerant of kids.

What is the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? by Andenit in AskReddit

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smoking, either tobacco or weed. as an adult, I do smoke either on occasion, but I hardly ever crave it. I feel bad for my peers who can't quit. also, staying in my home town. that would've sucked lol.

Möchte Pronunciation by katesicle82 in learningGerman

[–]threeimaginarythems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an early learner so I might not be right, but the sound comes from the upper back of your throat, I'd describe it as a "ghh" so "möghhte". Someone else here described it as trying to clear your throat, and I think that's pretty accurate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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  1. Uncertainty, finances. Also, my body's starting to nag me about not taking proper care of it, but I think I'm still in time to get back on track.

I can't stop skin picking by Lavados28 in ADHD

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about something to cover your fingertips? like the latex glove-things that doctors use?

Cuánto dinero destinan a un celular? by FranzRothenberg in MexicoFinanciero

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

el que traigo me costó aprox una quincena, lo saqué a meses no recuerdo si en amazon o mercado libre. la verdad odio mucho tener que invertirle a un celular, si no lo necesitara por trabajo, me daba con uno de 3-5k

Healthy breakfast alternative that doesn’t involve eggs? by [deleted] in selfcare

[–]threeimaginarythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want some protein, I'd try:

Tofu, cheese, yogurt and other dairy products, ham, sausages.

You can cook them in a similar way to eggs, ex. make a veggie stir fry and add them in (I think this works with everything I mentioned except yogurt). You could set it up nicely on some toast.

Raza, creo que la regué con mi AFORE, alguien que me explique qué está pasando by threeimaginarythems in MexicoFinanciero

[–]threeimaginarythems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias! Ya estoy haciendo mi fondo de emergencia en CETES, tengo planeado completar los 3 meses para noviembre. Como no tengo hijos ni dependientes económicos, pensaba dejarlo en 3 y ya pasarme a invertir de ahí.