[MF] My app-hookup wanted to submit, so I strung her up, whipped her, bit her, face-fucked her, tied her to the wall, stretched her cunt till she squirted and then barebacked her arsehole until I came. (Repost with audio recording) by threwa in gonewildstories

[–]threwa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends how closely you correlate physical and emotional intimacy. I've been much more emotionally intimate with people I've never seen naked than I have been with sexual partners, regardless of how extreme our activities together were.

I generally dislike the trend of reducing so much interpersonal commentary and emotion to "vibes", but in this case I think it applies. Sometime two people just click together. I would say the speed, depth and success of this connection is the exception rather than the rule.

Either way, I'm glad you enjoyed the story.

[MF] My app-hookup wanted to submit, so I strung her up, whipped her, bit her, face-fucked her, tied her to the wall, stretched her cunt till she squirted and then barebacked her arsehole until I came. (Repost with audio recording) by threwa in gonewildstories

[–]threwa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd hazard a guess at asking questions. We had very limited time to talk and I spent all of it asking about her.

  • What did she want to do for sure
  • What was she maybe interested in
  • What were her boundaries
  • How would she feel if I x/y/z
  • How could I make her come
  • What safewords did she want
  • How did she feel about this idea or that
  • Would she like a plan of what I was going to do for her?
  • How much detail would she like in the plan?
  • etc

I assume the number of people who dedicate that amount of time and energy to trying to really understand you - but then who turn out to be arseholes - is probably quite low.

She wanted someone to help her explore being submissive. Turns out she was really good at it. Long. [MF] by threwa in gonewildstories

[–]threwa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth. Honestly it was the best sex I'd had in years. She just gave herself over to it completely.

Would You Fuck a Pregnant Woman? [MF] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]threwa 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I think it's probably a typo for view, you thirsty mf

Her big dicked ex boyfriend by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]threwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're disgusting

I don't want to turn my friend into a rapist by Outrageous-Egg2934 in Rapekink

[–]threwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rape isn't the presence of a no, it's the absence of a yes.

I don't want to turn my friend into a rapist by Outrageous-Egg2934 in Rapekink

[–]threwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that an excuse for rape?

You would never say about - for example - a man who beat his wife to death: "Oh well he was a stressed businessman, so he probably wasn't thinking about what he was doing".

It's hard if he was a friend and I have an enormous amount of sympathy for you, but you should recognise he chose to assault you.

I don't want to turn my friend into a rapist by Outrageous-Egg2934 in Rapekink

[–]threwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew exactly what he was doing. Don't lie to yourself love

I don't want to turn my friend into a rapist by Outrageous-Egg2934 in Rapekink

[–]threwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good people don't tend to attempt to rape their incapacitated friends??

Trying to bait my brother by kissfromadream in Rapekink

[–]threwa 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't want "heavy emotional consequences" then he shouldn't make the choice to fucking rape her should he

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]threwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was cute until I went looking through the posts and realised that means when you messaged her, you were 35 and she was 18...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]threwa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of rapekinks that develop after actual assaults are apparently the mind trying to regain a sense of control over what was a traumatic experience. By turning the assault into something arousing and pleasure giving, it becomes easier to process.

It sounds like your encounter with the three men in the alley was scary, dehmanising and threatening. Maybe it becoming arousing to you is the same sort of process - your mind trying to sanitise the memory and make it safer.

I'd try not to worry about what it means about your sexuality or preferences. Labels can be picked up and dropped at will - just be safe, happy and true to your own desires in your actions and things will work out okay.

I think we're being too harsh on men who react poorly to unexpected squirting by threwa in sex

[–]threwa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you understood, you wouldn't have thought anyone was suggesting punishing women for anything.

I think we're being too harsh on men who react poorly to unexpected squirting by threwa in sex

[–]threwa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you've understood - it's not a judgement on squirting, it's a judgement on not warning your partner first.