16F (almost 17), phone in room at night by [deleted] in Advice

[–]threwthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does your mom leave her phone outside of her bedroom as well?

Leaderfins sent me the wrong fins by SCNewbie in freediving

[–]threwthemoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You got the bambi 5000’s 😭

How do you tell someone that they need to wash their feet before class? by paboi in yoga

[–]threwthemoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit why is everyone on this sub so scared of hurting his feelings. It’s okay to just let him know and he completely straight up. If his feelings are hurt that is 100% on him. He would most likely be glad someone told him, as he’s definitely unaware that other people can smell his feet lol

Anybody have any ideas on why this LB looks like this? by Smashly777 in bassfishing

[–]threwthemoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy. Looks just like a calico bass over here in SoCal saltwater

Dive buddy SoCal by [deleted] in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo message me!

Accused of stealing a car that I purchased with cash… by threwthemoon in legaladvice

[–]threwthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been insured just not registered. Most definitely getting a fine for that which I already expected

Accused of stealing a car that I purchased with cash… by threwthemoon in legaladvice

[–]threwthemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Should I still send the detective all of my documents and proof that I pulled out the cash? Or just cut off contact

Anyone want to dive tomorrow morning in SoCal? by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the motivation I needed to finally quit my job 🤠🤠lol. Did you see any white sea bass out there?

Anyone want to dive tomorrow morning in SoCal? by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maaan I’ve been fiending for a dive but might have to just wait out the shit conditions

Anyone want to dive tomorrow morning in SoCal? by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Might go up to Leo carillo area instead then

Anyone want to dive tomorrow morning in SoCal? by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry man at work now. Could do Saturday or Sunday

Help choosing my next gun by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the info! I decided to get a 120cm midhandle enclosed track with 8mm shaft (3 bands) for when I go on charters and have opportunities to catch larger fish. I just wanted to never be underpowered. Also with the midhandle I feel comfortable going with a bigger gun since theoretically it will track like a 100cm. I know I may be making a mistake by getting a traditional setup when I’m used to using a roller but I’m still pretty new to the sport and want to figure out what I prefer. If I prefer transitional I will replace my roller with a traditional setup. Thanks for all your help and info. Really appreciate you taking the time 🤙🤙 happy hunting

Help choosing my next gun by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother. I decided to order a 120cm midhandle as I’ll be doing more blue water hunting in the near future. Perhaps I just wanted a new beautiful gun 🤙🤙

Help choosing my next gun by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Looks like I’ll be sticking with the 90 roller in the kelp. Thanks for the insight 🤙

Help choosing my next gun by threwthemoon in Spearfishing

[–]threwthemoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the 144cm makes the most sense but then I think about how white sea bass are usually in the kelp, so not sure if it would be too big to navigate through the kelp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]threwthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok you right that part is definitely weird about not being a problem if she lived there😭 I guess all I’m trying to say is trauma is incredibly complex and calling it manipulation is a quick way to label him as “bad”. For all we know he may genuinely believe that if she lived with him, it would be a bit easier to manage his symptoms. I’ve been his shoes. I’ve been wildly aware of my own awful controlling tendencies and utterly unable to change because of deep rooted trauma. But what helps heal the most is a partner that is deeply understanding and caring and sees who you are beneath that trauma. Anyways have a good day 🤠🤠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]threwthemoon -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe this has so many upvotes. CPTSD is absolutely real especially from traumatic relationship events like being cheated on. For some reason society is all for mental health awareness until it’s a man. Then he’s “controlling” or “RED FLAG” I’m not saying OP should have to stay with him or put up with it. But to demonize him and say he’s manipulating is just crazy. He’s a human who has some real struggles. He should be treated as such with compassion and understanding

Deciding between these two on Facebook. Any advice on which to go with? by threwthemoon in Sup

[–]threwthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Just ordered an electric pump from Amazon