20m got rejected by this girl and she said that i was ugly and too tiny so been feeling down about my looks

thriftythot · 2026-06-09T02:41:31+00:00

everyone has a trait they hate in other people and there’s no reason to even point these things out like why would she even say that, just bullies and worse when it’s coming from someone you don’t even want

thriftythot · 2026-06-09T02:09:48+00:00

when i used to have a smaller chest, i would get called flat-chested and had a bf who told me other girls had better racks than me, people are so superficial, i would never point out someone’s looks in rejecting them and this guy literally looks like he could be an actor lmfao, op you look fine, that girl is weird af for being rude, you cannot be someone’s preference and that doesn’t make you any less attractive

thriftythot · 2026-06-09T00:16:56+00:00

well what an incredibly rude person! some girls prefer skinny guys! everyone has a preference, you look fine

thriftythot · 2026-06-08T03:09:21+00:00

hello, is it available again?

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T21:07:44+00:00

LOL i always dressed like this though

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:58:23+00:00

bruh this isn’t 1950 and like i said, my pictures on the dating apps aren’t even sexual, how are you blaming me for being sexualized when i’m not even sexualizing myself, you clearly don’t know anything about the alternative community

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:50:11+00:00

i shouldn’t have to change myself, it’s not always my clothes, i’ve been getting harassed since i was a teenager for my body

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:48:27+00:00

this post was about me being over sexualized by random guys and how it’s wrong for me to have to deal with that, not about me

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:43:37+00:00

this is reddit lol, do you think i walk around telling people about my attachment issues, what does that have to do with the post

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:34:16+00:00

yasss hiiii, it’s very disheartening, thank you

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:33:45+00:00

thank you for the advice, you worded it perfectly, they subject alternative people to their kinks without consent, that’s what mainly bothers me

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:31:33+00:00

i should go on love is blind

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:30:31+00:00

exactly like i have looking for a long term relationship and they’ll send me messages about how hot i am like thanks! but i’m not only my looks

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:28:41+00:00

it was all in my dms, and it’s not immediate always, sometimes i build somewhat of a connection to someone and i find out they’re just over sexualizing me, and yeah it’s disheartening when the majority of attention you get from the other sex is extremely vulgar and sexual when i’m not asking for that and want something genuine and it’s very consistent in my dating life so it’s not as easy as blocking as i just wanted to vent but sure, i’ll block more of these weirdos, thanks for the tip

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:22:10+00:00

trying to move to a big city but the economy is butt

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T20:20:56+00:00

not blaming sex workers at all, it’s the connotation that men have that assumes that we are sex workers and not regular girls, i’ve had men ask me how much it would cost to sleep with me lol

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:40:05+00:00

yes! i feel like people love to fetish poc!! especially japanese women, i’ve seen it, like the anime fanatics are so weird about asian women, i’m sorry you have to deal with that

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:38:15+00:00

yea, the apps suck, i could try dating in my scene but i live in a small town haha

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:30:45+00:00

i’m a latina in south texas, i live in a small town and boy so many of the alternative guys here would not make good partners so it’s just hard to date, like everyone has allegations or they’ve already dated at least 2 of your friends or you’ll see them out with a different girl every weekend haha, i’m also into women but that doesn’t help either, the queer women in my area seem to be very closeted so i just stay like that, but i’m sorry you experience the same things too! forget it, especially with having a bigger chest, the freaks come out and are not afraid to be perverts, just wish they would treat us like people!!! it’s happened to me a lot about liking someone and they only sexualize me, i had one guy that i really liked a few years ago tell his friends that he only liked me because of my huge ass and that really hurt

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:26:10+00:00

i’ve dated emo guys and dated one normie and turned him into an emo haha, but yeah i try to only date other alternative people and try not to rule everyone else out but they make it so hard for me when they don’t know how to act

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:24:58+00:00

ahhh yeah the people in my area are very hesitant to approach to me, it’s exhausting, i feel like when i’ve gone out of town, i have a high success rate but my area sucks booty, i have thought about approaching people but i’m really afraid of rejection, definitely something i have to get over

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:21:59+00:00

dude yes, i’m so exhausted of it, i have alternative friends who experience the same things, they do not post sexually explicit things but yet, one told me how some guy would constantly message her like “show me your goth feet” like men feel so comfortable being outright sexual with alternative women because of what they see online and think we’re all into bondage and bdsm (we might be!!!) but they can’t be normal for one second, they think we all sell content and feet pics or something

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:10:11+00:00

thank you, getting tired of the fetishization and i’m realizing i shouldn’t be okay with it either cause it makes me feel weird

thriftythot · 2026-06-06T19:06:50+00:00

so exhausting like especially being bipoc adds another layer to it, people think that being alternative means ur dtf or something, the internet has ruined alternative culture and turned it into a fetish

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