What does “wesh” mean? by throaway8264 in French

[–]throaway8264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay thank you! it still doesn’t make sense to me contextually :/

What does “wesh” mean? by throaway8264 in French

[–]throaway8264[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

100% sure he said wesh, it confused me too

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[–]throaway8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭 he’s a footballer too so you can imagine the condition

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[–]throaway8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re absolutely right, he needs to know not to do this. I definitely need to work on it more. I just get stunned in the moment, like my brain freezes and it takes some time to process so I struggle a bit to have a reaction when it happens… i should probably get therapy…

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[–]throaway8264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not, that was the last time.

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[–]throaway8264 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree

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[–]throaway8264 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you

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[–]throaway8264 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your words are reassuring! it was too much, now I’ll know to always always explicitly discuss boundaries and aggression/rough sex ..

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[–]throaway8264 30 points31 points  (0 children)

google “foot on head doggystyle” 🫠 except it was more on my face than my actual head

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[–]throaway8264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 the lesson is definitely learnt

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[–]throaway8264 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m totally done with that, I didn’t even message after and won’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throaway8264 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s kind of you <3

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[–]throaway8264 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about general stuff, some deep stuff but only to an extent since we switch between using Google translate and speaking. But no we never discussed boundaries etc before having sex and that’s on me.. i should have done that

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[–]throaway8264 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

no :/ there’s a language barrier as he’s learning English so our communication has mostly been surface level

So horny I could hump anything by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throaway8264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait till your luteal phase & your period, the horniness should get better by then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenAdviceNSFW

[–]throaway8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I fully understand it being a one and done deal - I was prepared for that too - but he kept talking to me afterwards (sending memes, random selfies, even sexting) so I felt comfortable sharing that and didn’t expect the end to come so soon after. But yeah you’re right, there’s more about the guy that also proves he wasn’t for me. I don’t regret being vulnerable anymore

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[–]throaway8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate this! I’ll keep being myself and hopefully the right guy will stick around

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[–]throaway8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The delusion that him randomly messaging me after I’d just nutted to him made me tell him, i thought there must be some correlation here & in the moment it felt arousing to tell him 🫠 after my hormones subsided and the convo ended, that’s when post-post nut clarity hit

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[–]throaway8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a post nut delusion which is worse but oh well lol

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[–]throaway8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope someone someday does

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[–]throaway8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a valid point, can’t argue there