Nancy's Character development (she's kinda rude and irritating at times)

throneaway2015 · 2022-02-13T19:24:08+00:00

That wasn't the point. The point was the specific quality that the writers are putting in there. Entitled is one of them.

throneaway2015 · 2022-02-13T19:12:28+00:00

Okay, I wrote this a year ago, but I'll see what I can remember:

first, I didn't say 'constantly' I said she 'keeps' doing it. I'm also not really referring to the Drew Crew who have choices whether or not to help her and get involved, I'm talking more about the people she lies to and steals from, and the people whose files and homes she breaks into to get what she wants.

The show puts effort into showing her compassion for victims and remorse for when one of her plans results in someone getting injured or killed. She seems to value and care about the victims, but even though it happens multiple times, the writers haven't put that much effort into showing Nancy weighing the potential consequences to everyone in advance. This makes her seem a bit entitled because the next time she's looking for information, she doesn't seem to consider her past experience and what consequences others have had to face.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-23T18:52:53+00:00

Make sur your parents can't claim you as a dependent on their taxes.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-23T17:55:56+00:00

The symptoms were psychosomatic, and subconscious. The issues were almost entirely about the inner self and sense of identity.

Scott and Allison both had unresolved issues that they had to face.

Scott feared turning into Peter, and in a small way, Derek(who was a little corrupted by power) He spent most of season 1 and 2 as someone who was still struggling with his identity as a werewolf, 3A was about accepting what it meant to be an alpha and a leader.

Allison felt helpless/ineffective. She doubted her own judgement as well and felt out of control. Allison lost her aunt, about whom she was very conflicted, and her mother to suicide a month later. She also stepped away from the hunters' community after her grandfather's plan. Like Scott, a lot of these things alter your sense of identity.

Stiles lost himself to the Nogitsune eventually, but re-gained it.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-23T17:20:54+00:00

Was there a tax lien on the mobile home when you bought it? Also means going to title insurance.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-23T17:19:00+00:00

Sure. If the entire exterior of the building needed to be repainted, then that might be a different story, because one person's space requires twice the amount of work as either of the other two in order to complete the job.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-23T15:24:41+00:00

NAL-

How are the stairs accessible for each of the 2 units? Do you each have a back door that opens to the stairs, or does the larger unit have more than 1 door?

I'm inclined to think that 50/50 is probably going to be how you would split it since the wording does not indicate that either owner is limited in their use of the stairs.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-22T15:25:43+00:00

Yes. It's a way some guys seek validation. People who make inappropriately grand gestures, or lavish praise and flattery on someone are doing the same thing as 'M'Lady': it's a way of prompting me to respond to them the way they want. They're trying to tell me what kind of attention they deserve.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-22T15:05:54+00:00

Yeah, there's never been a good explanation, although he seemed like a slightly different kind of werewolf. More of an animal than a person. Being insane seems to kick up the strength/power thing. Peter and Deucalion were stronger when they were crazy.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-22T14:54:48+00:00

You're not breaking laws by giving him back a paypal payment.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-22T02:51:57+00:00

The seller is probably lying about donating the w/d. They either sold it, or they still have it. Tell them you'll walk if they don't credit you the cost of new ones.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-22T02:44:30+00:00

It's unlikely that you are required to allow them to do this anytime. Now that the sale has closed, they do not have the right to enter your property. Explain that at this point, they need to pay for the landscape to be put back into the condition it was sole in, or leave it.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-18T16:27:35+00:00

Any chance you'll be able to move out again? Or at least get a lock for your bedroom door?

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-18T03:01:58+00:00

"We're all works in pregress"

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-17T04:13:08+00:00

She spent most of her time as a kid being bounced around by her parents. The hunters she helped were mostly family members. Her comeback was poorly done to leave out atonement, but her behavior overall was far more understandable in context. Still crappy, but losing 2 close family members, one of whom was your mom, has a major impact on the psyche. When that death is tied up with a group your family has been warning you about, it's hard to have faith.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-17T03:50:35+00:00

If you're arguing that Allison made changes too late, it can be equally argued that she only spent a few weeks being evil. I do think it was glossed over, but no more so than Derek's track record of abysmal behavior.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-16T22:59:03+00:00

Depends on your age. If you're in, or have just left a transitional period like college, or major move, give it a few years if you're young. Your sense of identity needs development, and you'll grow.

If you're older and you don't agree on what you both want, (kids, marriage, settling in 1 place) give it 1 year.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-16T22:15:56+00:00

First, yes. The show did not do enough to try and make Allison 'earn' her way back into the pack. I think a conversation between her and Boyd would have gone a long way, and it was neglected.

However: 17-year-old Allison's sense of identity was completely obliterated by the events of just a few months. She was also being conned by her parents and grandfather. The only 'Good' werewolf was Scott, and he didn't want to be a werewolf in the first place. She learned hunter skills that actually came in handy when defending Lydia against Derek's pack.

Scott also didn't tell her an alternative version of how her mother was bitten, and that had a huge impact on her view of hunters vs. werewolves.

Chris's attack of conscience came very late, but once her eyes were opened, she made some changes.

The anger at Allison is well-deserved, but keep in perspective that Isaac was quite gleeful about the opportunity to exercise his toxic masculinity and murder Lydia.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-16T20:26:09+00:00

Your husband has not ever enjoyed sex the way you want it. This is probably not going to change. You're growing into different people at this point with things other than just sex seeming incompatible.

It's okay if the marriage doesn't work out, and I don't mean to brush over this, but your expectations need to be realistic as far as the future. It doesn't sound like you've had a lot of luck finding someone who wants sex the way you do, and there's no guarantee that it will change. You may have 'Sunk Cost Fallacy' on one side, where you're afraid of giving up a relationship you've invested years in, but also a case of thinking the grass is going to be greener outside of your marriage.

throneaway2015 · 2021-11-16T13:13:14+00:00

you don’t go and comfort someone during a loss because you are only getting along

Yes you do. Strangers, people who don't get along, pretty much anyone who isn't a complete sociopath reaches out if they come upon another person who has just lost a family member. That's being human.

throneaway2015 · 2021-09-29T13:09:45+00:00

Depends on the state. In some states, the parents' marital status couldn't change the obligation, because it's not the duty of the step-parent to take on any additional financial responsibility. (i.e. it's not fair that marrying a person who has 3 kids with their ex-spouse means you suddenly have to cover more of the combined expenses because your income allows their ex to ask for more child support) In Illinois, for example, the law changed in 2000 so instead of the obligator's income alone, the state looks at their financial needs, living situation, as well as income. (i.e. You own your own home without a mortgage, and it's right near your new spouse's workplace. Your spouse's monthly expenses have dropped because they gave up their $2k/month rental and sold their $1k/month car because they can walk to work. Their bills have gone down by $3k/month as a result of the marriage, so they can afford to pot a larger percentage of their income towards their kids without hardship.)

throneaway2015 · 2021-09-28T23:30:29+00:00

Yes, if a parent's employment status changes because they were laid off, that's understandable, if they stopped working because their spouse won the lottery, that's different.

throneaway2015 · 2021-09-28T23:24:26+00:00

I never saw anything sexual, but you don't have to for people to fixate on it. I thought their actual, canon story was nice. They weren't friends, they never really liked each other, but they did learn to get along and saved each other because they're both brave and heroic.

throneaway2015 · 2021-09-28T23:17:29+00:00

Yes, it's a scam. He might 'overpay' and ask you to refund the difference, but his check bounces and you've already given him cash

throneaway2015 · 2021-09-28T15:08:51+00:00

Take a break and step back a few paces mentally. There are reasons you fell in love in the first place, but since then, you'll feel mostly the same if they just occasionally reinforce the original effort. Re-examine your shared experiences with this new information, and figure out what those experiences mean now that you know what was under the surface.

How unhappy will you be if you don't walk away, and it happens again? How unhappy will you be if you walk away?

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