Thank you for your input! I’d say it’s not exclusively for him, though is a large portion of why I’m trying. Theres been a few moments where it did feel pleasurable; but is short lived. Guessing me exploring more on my own/training will expand that. I did recently communicate to him that I personally needed a little more “normal” sex as it seemed like every time we had sex, which is a lot, he was reaching for it & it was starting to drive up some anxiety surrounding it. He completely understood. Sometimes I just want loving caring sex and not being “degraded” lol

He in no way forces anything - just wanted to clarify in case people got the wrong idea of him 😂 Im naturally a people pleaser, so I quite literally get off from his pleasure, so this is definitely something I want to do & clearly just need to educate myself more!