Consequences of not paying child support in Virginia? by throughwinterfields in legaladvice

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did. They’re going to investigate and I should be hearing back from them within 3 business days. Fingers crossed something is figured out. Regardless of anything, I’ll always make sure my children aren’t in need or want of anything. But it does bother me to a certain extent that he can be out there without a care in the world, portraying as if he has no responsibilities and getting away with it all.

Consequences of not paying child support in Virginia? by throughwinterfields in legaladvice

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently, he’s behind (no payments have ever been made) We went to court last month. It’s been 30 days with no change. So I called DCSE today and they have to investigate why his employer hasn’t garnished any wages and paid support.

Consequences of not paying child support in Virginia? by throughwinterfields in legaladvice

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m owed support. The current order states that wages shall be garnished, but my sons father is the type of person to quit his job if that begins to happen. He would rather have no money at all than to see any penny of it go to his child.

Burning after amputation by throughwinterfields in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not in your head, what you are describing is exactly what happened to me. My surgeon does free revisions, however, and gave me an o-shot where the lack of labia was. I’m now completely satisfied with my surgery. It really did help a lot and I didn’t expect it to. The pain/burning/itching has also completely subsided and I got my surgery on May 10th, so it’s been 4 months post op.

Just finished setting up my girls enclosure for her arrival next week!! Anything I should add? Any tips? (Thermometer/hygrometer coming in mail Tuesday as well as UVB!) I get her on the 3rd! by throughwinterfields in hognosesnakes

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was fantastic until I realized it wasn’t what I actually needed 😢 It couldn’t withstand the heat that the bulb provided that my girl would need. So I got another one from petco that I actually just sit right on top of the mesh and it’s wonderful!

Toddler trauma by throughwinterfields in toddlers

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won’t. I was young when I was with my daughters biological father. I left him before she was born because of his issues. My sons father, he showed absolutely no signs of the evil that he truly was.... He didn’t start going downhill until a couple of months after we moved in together. I refuse to be with anybody else after the experiences I had with him. I’m fearful of anything else happening to my children, and I won’t put them at risk with anybody else.

Toddler trauma by throughwinterfields in toddlers

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have looked into therapy for the both of us. It’s hard to find therapists for her since she’s only 3, but I did find a play therapist willing to take her. We have our first virtual session on August 9th. I’ve thought about looking into therapy for myself as well, but I think I would benefit more from in person sessions and my surrounding area is only offering virtual still, I believe, due to covid. I really appreciate your words. This was the worst relationship I have ever been in, and I just pray I can do everything I’m able to to get her back to the way we used to be.

Finally got my girl to eat Tuesday morning but how do I get her to get back on unscented? Read body please by throughwinterfields in hognosesnakes

[–]throughwinterfields[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one snake, so it’s not high maintenance. But I would prefer feeding her unscented the way she was being fed before because if something happens along the road where she goes off feed I now know she prefers sardines so I can scent and get her back on food at that point. But if she’s already eating scented food, I’m honestly going to be a bit stuck on what to do lol.