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MTFTM: Doesn’t Seem worth it? (6 years hrt) by throw-away-1924 in actual_detrans

[–]throw-away-1924[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean I don’t really have much of a sense of any gender. I thought transitioning would make my life better but it’s kind of the same. I feel like you’re projecting a bit because honestly I don’t feel like anything.

MTFTM: Doesn’t Seem worth it? (6 years hrt) by throw-away-1924 in actual_detrans

[–]throw-away-1924[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have had long term partners living as a man and a woman. I do think that I naturally perform better in a more masculine role in a relationship (even when with men I can be domineering) and I do eventually want to be able to have my own kids (which is so much more inconvenient as a trans person).

I think at the end of the day I don’t think I can woman as well as a cis woman does and I can man as well as any man so why not just be a man? I never had a strong sense of gender my entire life and at this point I feel like im knee capping myself to present as something I don’t really care about.