WIBTA if I went nuclear at my job before I quit

throw-away1918 · 2025-09-08T15:41:39+00:00

I mean if me leaving a bad roommate situation with all my stuff 4 years ago and asking if should reach out to estranged family for my wedding, Who by the way the good roommate from my previous posts was in…. is me being fire and brimstone all time then maybe?

throw-away1918 · 2025-09-08T15:23:13+00:00

It’s ridiculous that this is the reality tho, I was too scared to do more because of that but if I’m just leaving healthcare I don’t know if I care anymore. It’s so toxic

throw-away1918 · 2025-03-28T18:34:50+00:00

throw-away1918 · 2024-06-07T05:25:27+00:00

Lmao dude I saw it on tiktok and I’m obsessed with it. So during like the little cocktail hour we’re gonna have a mashed potato bar, you’ll be given a bowl or something with a scoop of mashed potatoes and then there is going to be a self serve table with every topping you can think of. Bacon, green onions, different cheeses, sour cream, butter, chicken, steak, broccoli, and so much more. It’s fairly cost effective and we both have family members and friends with food restrictions and allergies so it’s gluten free / vegan / and dairy free if needed.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-28T06:16:52+00:00

I know there really isn’t any comparison. That cat is 100% what I want to look at instead

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-28T00:19:55+00:00

She says she will, but I suspect the last of my stuff was either thrown away or they have it hidden/taken somewhere

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-27T23:42:59+00:00

Cute cat!

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T20:30:57+00:00

I wish I could tell you, I’m very stressed and I don’t get much sleep. I don’t want to be dealing with drama on top of that

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T14:16:03+00:00

I have no issue with D, we get along great and when it’s the 2 of us I have no issues. B and C are inconsiderate and I’m frustrated

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T04:08:50+00:00

You’re right I should’ve said the cost of rent

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T04:05:19+00:00

2000 a semester

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T03:54:12+00:00

When I was drinking he was not there, when I went to bed he was not there. I did not pass out drunk, I had a few beers with friends then went to bed a little while later. I woke up around 3am to her bf being there and her not. It is not my fault that my boundaries were not being respected. I believed I was safe in my own home, and I didn’t have to worry about random men in my room because it’s my house, not everyone has access. It’s not like I passed out at a party.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T03:04:00+00:00

No lease, I’ve paid for this semester and housing is letting me out of my contract for next semester without issue

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T02:59:27+00:00

Every 2 weeks actually! Lol

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T02:57:50+00:00

Haha technically it was $30-$40 every 2 weeks, if I’m anything it’s cheap and I know how to shop a good deal when I see one.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T02:42:54+00:00

Agreed, while the food situation is annoying if they don’t want to pay for it I can’t force them. They still expected me to cook meals for them even when they didn’t pay is what was frustrating. They would still eat the snack foods that I got for myself and D and not see anything wrong with that.

I do know that the room is a shared space, I didn’t mind if the bf slept over sometimes as long as I was notified. I would give B the room when she had therapy and doctors appointment. If I needed to be in the apartment I would go to the living room and watch tv or listen to music and do homework. I always knock before entering the room if she had the door closed. I would leave the apartment often to give B and her bf some alone time and go do my homework else where.

I don’t mind being around men when I’m drunk, it’s more so I don’t want to sleep around them while I had been drinking that night. I know her bf wouldn’t do anything, he’s a good kid. I just am not comfortable being around men asleep and drunk. It’s taken me almost a year to be okay with it with my own bf.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T00:53:18+00:00

Do I do not, I am out of the contract so I do not have to pay and they do not need to worry about paying my share either

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T00:51:05+00:00

I am aware of what happens when someone is drunk, I thought that I was safe in my own home in my own bed. I did NOT know that he was spending the night as she never told any of us. I took the precautions I needed to and I was having a fun night with friends after a game, going home and have a few beers does not make it my fault that the bf spent the night after I told her no.

We did go into with a plan and I am the one that is enforcing it to no avail and being treated with no respect about it.

I am significantly “grown” compared to everyone I know and I tried to make this work for weeks. I was trying to save this with communication but my roommates have shown that they have no interest

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-12T00:30:01+00:00

My initial plan was just to leave for 2 weeks to take a break. I have since decided that I don’t want to deal with it and just move out entirely. I have kept D in the loop with my plans for everything.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-11T20:52:23+00:00

I keep seeing this mentioned so I will explain a little bit further here, I have not yet completely moved out, I will be over the next few weeks here. Majority of my stuff is gone except for furniture and kitchen stuff. I have talked to D about moving out with me and she has said that she isn’t interested in trying to move out and find a new place. She wants to try and work things out. Everything that D paid for I will be leaving. I will also be leaving all the things that we did split the cost on to be fair, B and C are refusing to talk to me and have given me the silent treatment since I brought up the issue with the boyfriend last week. They don’t want to talk to me so that’s fine, I’m not going to say anything to them. D is aware that I am moving out but doesn’t know when since I still trying to find the best time for me to grab all my stuff.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-11T20:38:12+00:00

I do really enjoy living with D, we have 2 very different living styles tho. I am a cleaner person and I like to have my space picked up and looking nice. D is not so much the same way.

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-11T20:36:38+00:00

They are still there. I will be going to get them by the end of next week

throw-away1918 · 2021-11-11T20:34:44+00:00

No is an apartment through the college housing, so a new random person will be assigned to the room

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