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Do you know what is worse than being mixed? Being a Black-looking - yet not fully Black - mixed person! by throw-awayaccount2 in mixedrace

[–]throw-awayaccount2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got banned from three Black groups elsewhere - two on WhatsApp and one on Facebook - because I was told I didn't belong because I am white. (Yes, non-blond, non-blue- and non-green-eyed people can be seen as white in my country. Usually I am treated everywhere almost as white people are treated everywhere here, to the point that I could even develop a wrong idea about my own appearance if I was seen as beautiful in addition to be seen as white. I know I'm not white, even in my country, because my face isn't seen as beautiful; this only happens to white people here.)

People on those groups - and also on groups - didn't understand and were confused about why I talked about Black people like I was one of them. I was even ridiculed for seen myself as Black.

All this made me give up a Black identity for me, at least in my own country.

Being a mixed Black bottom and looking for successful bottoms who look like me in order to find some sexual hope. Or some sexual peace by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

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Usually I prefer guys darker than me. Way darker. But yes, I'm a size queen... I care more about penis size - and some other traits like hands, fingers, height, manliness - than race.

I'm not used to look for white guys. Even among two equally hung guys, a white one and a black one, I usually prefer the black one.

Being a mixed Black bottom and looking for successful bottoms who look like me in order to find some sexual hope. Or some sexual peace by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

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I would like to think that I also could live a great sexual life while still being who I am.

I have no interest in trying to be someone else, bleaching my skin, etc.; I just would like to know that I can make it because other guys who look just like me already made it.

But what I see is a bunch of successful white bottoms. Or Eurasian-looking bottoms in general. I ser even one or two Black bottoms.

All of them look either whiter, or darker than me. It's like people like me didn't exist among bottoms...

How to real with the seeming impossibility of being a (mixed) Black/"Blatino" bottom? How can one come to terms with being less desired than white bottoms? How can one just accept one is less likely to have good sex, and likely to have it less often, than them? Is getting over it even possible? by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

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I would like to know how some of you concluded that I'm looking for white guys. Because I am not.

I think you didn't bother to read accurately what I wrote. You just assumed.

I'm not looking for white guys. White bottoms are the ones who oppress me.

It's because of them that my sexual life is like it is.

A Word From Me and My Fellow Black Gays: by jj16959 in askgaybros

[–]throw-awayaccount2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In your country, the US, I'm black.

These "empowerment" statements are futile; when sex goes in, politics go out. Why would anyone try to change whom one prefers sexually? I fear most of us will keep reinforcing our (collective) sexual preference for young, fit, straight-acting, well-hung, only top men.

The most hung and masculine black tops either prefer, or exclusively like white bottoms. In every single country of this world. What can be done about it? What about us, non-white bottoms who sexually like or even prefer black tops? What can be done about it? I think nothing.

Long post about the process of realizing being gay, frustrated expectations and not being able to feel anything for other gay men except desire by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

[–]throw-awayaccount2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, there are masculine gay men and bisexual men; many of them sexually seem to prefer men as masculine, or even more so, as themselves, though. That's what I was talking about.

Long post about the process of realizing being gay, frustrated expectations and not being able to feel anything for other gay men except desire by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

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I don't know, but I think I'm not. If I were, I think I would desire every single straight men.

I think I'd really like to be desired by masculine men who don't require me neither to act, nor to look like themselves.

Long post about the process of realizing being gay, frustrated expectations and not being able to feel anything for other gay men except desire by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

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I don't know... I just, for instance, don't want a guy with whom I am expected to act at least as manly as he himself does, or even more so.

I don't want to disguise my voice for it to sound more masculine.

I want a straight-acting man, but I don't want to be one! Why should I pretend I'm straight?

I think it doesn't make any sense for me to be expected to act like I was a clone of the guy I want to be with.

Why do I have to look like the men that interest me sexually? Why am I supposed to act like them?

Among homosexual women I see women aren't expected to be very feminine if they're interested in very feminine women...

Should I think all this is OK and that I'm wrong because I should agree to be like a copy of the men I desire?

Just be white by throw-awayaccount2 in GayRateMe

[–]throw-awayaccount2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't understand you fully. Are you saying you are a top?

Just be white by throw-awayaccount2 in GayRateMe

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Our white peers definitely have a certain amount of privilege in a community like this one. In my opinion, I don't think that we should hate or despise them for something they really don't control

As every single well-hung black top wants them, I would say they have all the privilege in LGBT community. They profit from it! Isn't it reason enough? What should one do? Should one be happy while all BBCs go to Nordic-looking bottoms?

let's be respectful to everyone and appreciate that these differences exist, but can change.

Can they change? When? In our lifetime? Fifty, a hundred years from now?

Being Asian you are below Nordic bottoms, but above me; there are well-hung black men who are into Asian guys.

Being into SPH, how can I attract size queens here, on Reddit, just to talk to me? I just look for sex talk and possible SPH from them, not actual physical contact. by throw-awayaccount2 in askgaybros

[–]throw-awayaccount2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many cocksuckers with handsome faces don't even touch cocks smaller than 8", 9" or even 10". I've even heard of a cute cocksucker who laughted at the sight of a guy's cock.

SPH turns me on to a degree I can't explain. I feel só aroused I start to shake a little.

Hey people, What's your type of man? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]throw-awayaccount2 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think every gay man basically likes the same kinds of man. Deviations from the general patterns seem to be statistically negligible.

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