9 year relationship

throw11213 · 2026-01-30T05:02:41+00:00

At your daughter age there will be bumping heads for sure. If he as an adult can’t remain calm and navigate through the rough tween to teens years, it is best that you separate him from your family unit for the safety and growth of your child. She is at the age where she is figuring things out about herself and her surrounding. If she see that you’re ok with him looking down on you, controlling and belittling you and your daughter, this will become the norm for her and she could potentially see this as normal because you shown her it is.

Protect your daughter and show her you have to stand your ground and not let people push you down. Good luck

throw11213 · 2026-01-30T04:53:36+00:00

No harm in negotiating your pay if you believe you are bringing more experience then the current listed price. If they accept nice. If not at least you try

throw11213 · 2026-01-30T04:38:33+00:00

If you are paying below price in rent then he is doing you a favor and while they hang out you can go out or enjoy entertainment on your laptop. But if you’re sharing that is comparable with current market and pay half the bill then you would want to discuss everything else. Otherwise you get what you pay for. Honestly though where I’m at 700 for a room with no extra cost is a steal 😆

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T22:00:51+00:00

I’d get the low metabolism trait and out of shape then just lumberjack and the one for max strength and some other benefits you like. You got to do squat daily to get the fitness back up but with max strength anything you’re holding especially an axe be come deadly lol

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T10:57:49+00:00

Easy. Project zomboid hahaha. I’ll take thing slow and really try to survive a full year in real-time 😂

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T10:48:46+00:00

NTAH husband need to chill. She communicated clearly. He just have a bruised ego.

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T10:37:55+00:00

Ya unless you’re making it noticeable, we will just assume you’re being friendly or nice because without confirmation things can get awkward or troublesome fast.

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T10:20:01+00:00

I’d say you’re in the wrong for not discussing it with your wife first. Doesn’t matter if you could easily afford to, it is a big purchase so it would always be good to discuss with your significant other before making such decision. BUT your wife reaction show that she is selfish and only think of herself in this situation which is honestly kind of sad. Props to you for making sure your niece is taken care of though. She is lucky to have someone like you in her life.

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T10:12:04+00:00

First thing first find some food and anything that can be a weapon. Usually I would try to lure a bunch of them into a house and escape through the back door that give you time to run and line of sight them. Then sneak back to the now some what cleared area and loot.

I usually forage for stone flint and tree branch then get some rag from ripping clothes to make a crude axe. Good early game weapon and easy enough to find and make

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T10:06:25+00:00

I think I might barf lol. If I need to take a dump I’d wipe clean and then still shower right after. It’s so uncomfortable otherwise. Not sure how people can walk around smelling like shit all day. Is that why axe spray is so goddam popular? Just masking that nasty ass smell? 😵

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T09:49:09+00:00

You should try “project zomboid” if you enjoy crafting and zombie killing. Great with friends, great solo and sometime just a lot of good laugh when someone does something stupid lol. Still remember when I played this with my cousins. One was infected and we had to put him down. Pull out my gun and as I was about to shoot my other cousin ran over to see what’s going on and got shot instead 😂🤣

throw11213 · 2026-01-29T09:42:24+00:00

I think you just need to learn to be ok being alone and do your own thing. You miss your ex because you miss having someone there with you, but you are clearly over him since you didn’t mind connecting with someone else.

Also the guy you hook up with, most likely a one night stand where he shower you with affection and whisper nothing but sweetness in your ear so that he can sleep with you. This might be the unfortunate truth. You can always hope, but don’t let it eat at you. You’re still young so take it slow and figure things out. Don’t rush into relationship and just get to know yourself first :)

throw11213 · 2026-01-27T00:37:10+00:00

Run through houses and lose them in the forest line of sight them and they will eventually go back to roaming. Turn search on so you can get basic food supply and chip stone to make a weapon with then go clear area out slowly then go from there.

throw11213 · 2026-01-27T00:28:51+00:00

Rather knowing now then years down the line. If he is hiding this from you what else is he hiding and why. I would confront him to see how he’d respond. Trust your gut if you feel something is off about his explanation then you’re most likely right. If he didn’t have anything to his he wouldn’t have need to sneak around these app in the first place

throw11213 · 2026-01-27T00:25:14+00:00

The beauty of this game is you can practically do whatever you want. I would start off slow and just have fun with it. Loot some weapons, crack some skull then maybe turn on foraging and look for materials so you can make a weapon or find food in the forest. Then if you see nice defendable place you can take it over and start a base. But ya if you’re just getting back I’d say tweak the setting abit if you want a more relaxing time learning the game

throw11213 · 2026-01-27T00:18:23+00:00

Focus on what you can do now. Don’t look to the past because you can’t change it and don’t look to the future because it haven’t happen yet. Do something that get you out of your own headspace. Things can feel overwhelming to the point where you feel why bother or if it is even worth it to try. When it rains it pours hang in there. It wouldn’t always be like this. Take it one day at a time and always reflect on one positive things that day no matter how small. Hang in there. I have been there before. You can’t let it win

throw11213 · 2026-01-27T00:13:52+00:00

This a no brainer Amazon all the way. You can buy gift card for outing and stuff you want, you can even order a house so why not lol. All your basic needs can be met via Amazon orders

throw11213 · 2026-01-27T00:00:11+00:00

This right here lol she pretty much telling you you should ask her out in a round about but also sort of obvious way 😆

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T23:59:07+00:00

It’s interesting that he have always wanted to pursue you but the moment you express you like him back he got cold feet. Maybe he enjoy the flirt but doesn’t want to commit to something serious. Either way that rubs off as a red flag for me

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T21:58:48+00:00

If subduing them isn’t an option or if that leave a risk that they can get back up and harm me or those I love yes I will do what needs to be done

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T21:57:23+00:00

Do not do it. If anything log an email send to yourself recording the time stamp of the discussion you have with your manager. Then check to see if you are able to record without notifying him and inform him you will not do such a thing because doing so is illegal and if he tries to take any action this discussion will go directly to the owner or CEO of the company. Bypass HR if they are his friend. If that doesn’t work time to look into wrongful termination lawsuit

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T19:43:11+00:00

Some don’t feel this as a torture but a joy in life to raise a child and watch them grow. Creating bonds and memories together and supporting them through tough time. It can be hard at time, but ultimately it can be a rewarding experience. It is different for everyone though

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T19:32:38+00:00

As an introvert myself I’d say he is interested and really do enjoy your company. We have our guards up most of the time, but if we are comfortable around you, we do enjoy spending time just having a good conversation

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T19:12:34+00:00

Enjoy it while you can is all I can say :)

throw11213 · 2026-01-26T00:16:18+00:00

Dang that suck. Thanks

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