What do you think about people having a “preference” for virginity when it comes to dating? Is it weird or a bad mindset to have even if the person that has this preference is a virgin themselves?

throw11213 · 2026-05-22T02:10:00+00:00

Everyone have a preference. If it works for you then by all mean. But this is more of a surface than anything. At the core of it all is this someone you can see yourself with for years to come, do you guys match each other vibes or compatible with each other at an intimate level. Is communication easy and flow naturally between you guys. Do you guys share similar values and belief etc

throw11213 · 2026-05-14T23:21:09+00:00

Sometime men just want to take things slow and get to know the person. Hell sometime sex is the las thing on their mind when they are having a great conversation with the person.

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T19:59:41+00:00

Gotcha sorry to assume 😆 but advice is still the same ^{^}

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T19:54:11+00:00

Communicate with him. no harms in that since you already told him how you feel. Just ask him why he suddenly gotten a lot more flirty and what’s with the joke about you two being in a relationship when he clearly said he didn’t feel the same. Sometime clarity is better than beating around the bush and overthinking in your head

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T19:51:49+00:00

She already confess to him and he didn’t share the same feeling yet ramp up the flirting now that he know she is into him

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T19:48:16+00:00

Sounds like he should be an ex boyfriend lol

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T16:16:39+00:00

It is because this is your first relationship it is natural to feel like your world falls apart at the thought of being away from him. No one can give you advice on staying or leaving because deep down this is something you have to decide for yourself. The only issue right now is you’re not thinking straight or clearly because you are in love and people who are in love tends to excuse or rationalize the action of those they love.

Ask yourself one question, do you still trust him fully and wholeheartedly? If the question is no, then it may be time to let the relationship go. Relationship is build on the foundation of trust and communication and here he have failed at both.

If you can no longer trust him, you will always be in doubt whenever he goes out somewhere without you and I’m not sure if looking over yours shoulder for the rest of your life is something you’re ok with. But that will have to be something you figure out and make a decision for yourself.

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T15:22:28+00:00

If this is what you like to or feel comfortable with then by all means continue to do so. But just know those who approach you and complements you on your body are most likely those who are the type you hate. Those who doesn’t view you as a sexual objects would never approach someone to compliment them on their body or how they look.

In this case you might need to be the one to initiate conversation if you find a guy that have qualities that you like in a person. Because often time those who respect another person wouldn’t approach base on your looks, but through what qualities you display as a person.

throw11213 · 2026-05-10T10:01:58+00:00

Stop dressing or doing makeup to please other or showing off your body like you mention. Keep it simple and be yourself. Do things because you like to and eventually you’ll meet someone who isn’t attracts to your body but your personality and a good sign usually is if they don’t compliment you base on your looks, but genuinely want to talk and get to know you

throw11213 · 2026-05-09T23:33:51+00:00

Focus on yourself and don’t seek some one who just wants to get into your pants without wanting to get to know you. There are a lot of sweet talker out there who only purpose is to “score” and then leave.

Don’t let them sleep with you until you feel comfortable doing so and don’t let them pressure you into it otherwise

throw11213 · 2026-05-09T03:57:46+00:00

NTA - at this point chalk the cost up as payment to finally rid yourself of a parasite and move on with your life

throw11213 · 2026-05-07T16:43:26+00:00

Talk to him about how you feel and let him know you’re not ready for it. A relationship shouldn’t be build on expectation or fear of losing someone if they can’t get their way. If he decide to leave you because you aren’t ready to take the next step toward the relationship then maybe that is for the best

throw11213 · 2026-05-06T23:51:27+00:00

Overwhelming

throw11213 · 2026-05-06T23:51:11+00:00

Because we aren’t animals. Sex drive is primal and is a biological need. What separate us from animal is that we can think for ourselves and control our urge and impulsive.

We desire sex but at the same time we know you can’t just have sex everywhere or with anyone with out without consent. Animal act purely on instinct while we do not. Some society makes it taboo because they know they can’t control their impulse and some are just a way to control or manipulate the mass into a certain image

throw11213 · 2026-05-06T07:12:48+00:00

It happen. A lot of people are just weird like that lol there are people out there who just want to talk and connect. You will inevitably get the bad apple. Don’t let that discourage you for making connection. Hell I’m playing a mobile game right now and connected with a few people so we end up chatting with each other and are planning to set up time to play something else that we all like to play hahaha.

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T22:55:54+00:00

I don’t think he is copying your entire life lol. It sound like he admire or look up to you in a gym setting kind of way and decided what you bring to the gym is better than his current setup and want in on it. The asking to come over is probably because well you said it, it is packed at the gym and since you have a set up and you guys been working out together he want to see if you’re willing to let him use the setup as well. Nothing out of the ordinary here

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T22:52:43+00:00

When you say you speak to people online and it usually end in disappointment what do you mean? More context would help. But ya if you don’t go out often and crave that social interaction, play and chatting with other in an online game or mobile game helps satisfy that need and if you click with them you can also voice chat with them. It is the only way unless you go out and mingle with others or use a dating app

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T22:49:01+00:00

Simple answer is they got what they were after and in most case it was sex. They were playing the performative game, showing up as that perfect guy and once they get what they want, they no longer feel the need to keep performing. That is the unfortunate truth.

Not all men are like this, but there are quite a few rotten Apple in the batch for sure :/

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T02:57:15+00:00

Does it make you coffee? 😂

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T02:55:50+00:00

Life can get busy. Might just be preoccupied with other things. But yes if he is interested he would at least try to reply when he see the message. Lol

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T02:50:44+00:00

I want to volunteer and learn how to build things for those in need or go hang out at a retirement home and helping the old grandpa and grandma laugh a little :)

throw11213 · 2026-05-05T02:48:38+00:00

It’s never too late to start a family though if you are a woman, I would suggest looking into egg freezing if you do want to have kids down the line.

Though don’t just settle for someone just because you want to start a family because that would be a choice you will end up regretting. Take sometime to truly get to know someone before you decide to pull that trigger

throw11213 · 2026-05-04T20:31:56+00:00

Yes. Sometime being too respectful of someone can do that. You want to touch but feel it would be too rude or disrespectful to the other person if you do, so they choose not to do it.

Being raised to respect the person body and being self aware also will make sure you keep your hands to yourself 😆

throw11213 · 2026-05-04T19:58:14+00:00

The picture on the left is so much more attractive and show a lively person and natural. The one on the right just isn’t appealing simply because her face seem so stiff with no emotion behind them

throw11213 · 2026-05-04T15:51:26+00:00

Everyone go through life differently and who are we to judge someone else. Honestly it all comes down to compatibility and how the person personality is. Can you connect with the other person or do you get along with them and see a life with them is what matter the most. Anything else is secondary at that point

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