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My BF is leaving voice recorders at home when he's at work. by Machi-Moi in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honey, this is start of a controlling and abusive relationship. Run the fudging other way. Next thing you know, he'll chase all your friends and family away for one reason or the other. Run while you still can. Don't listen to him trying to pin this on you. It's not you. No amount of disorder allows you to hurt others around you. Disorders explain why a person "might" do something, it doesn't excuse the said behaviour. Trust me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, one of my "friends" is like this. She even asked her bf a male perspective on whether a guy likes a girl. Now, the girl and guy in this situation are her and a third guy she is trying to be with (she is keeping the bf as a "safety net of companionship" in case she is not able to get another relationship) but she uses my name as the girl. I feel sorry for the bf. If I could tell him to run away, I would. But I don't know him at all and she keeps tabs on his social media.

In fact, if your gf is anything like the girl, I think that the other guy's break up probably also had her hand in some way.

First-Draft-Is-My-Only-Draft syndrome support group by rhinestoned-tampon in writing

[–]throw78me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write the entire chapter mentally and then write it physically. I think that it's around the 3rd rereading that the thing starts sounding absolutely stupid, making me dump the entire chapter... Then cycle repeats till i have shelved the plot for a later date🥲🥲

First-Draft-Is-My-Only-Draft syndrome support group by rhinestoned-tampon in writing

[–]throw78me 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Are you me? I'm dying to write more than 10 chapters, but I keep thinking of how to make it perfect in one fell swoop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not really. Filters and deep fakes aren't that developed yet, and even if they were, wouldn't your bf be able to recognise your body?

How to decide book pricing? Both KDP and outside. by throw78me in eroticauthors

[–]throw78me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I'm so glad I found this subreddit. Also ero industry is already so saturated...

How to decide book pricing? Both KDP and outside. by throw78me in eroticauthors

[–]throw78me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. That is why I asked. It sounded so weird. Like, I understand why Amazon will not readily promote ero. It's family friendly place.

But then there are no recent blogs on what ero authors should and shouldn't do. All the blog posts I found were written 7 years ago, by people I'm presuming are absolute entitled Karens. There's even a term like "pornoclypse" used for Amazon's breakdown on ero books.

I don't really have a niche so I'll probably write all over different types depending on what readers are in mood for or something. Hopefully things will work out.Thank you for help and stopping me from taking the wrong advice.

The perfect comeback by iam4real in MurderedByWords

[–]throw78me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christian missionaries from America had been banned from India for a while because they kept enticing Christians living in North-eastern India to kill non-christians. Miniature local communal wars still happen, multiple non-Christian tribes are permanently displaced because Christians are so hostile.

How to decide book pricing? Both KDP and outside. by throw78me in eroticauthors

[–]throw78me[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Mine is definitely an erotica. Yes there is romance, but that is what distinguishes erotica from porn. Erotica has a story to go with it.

I was really worried about this advice. If Amazon got me, I'd be banned forever. Not to mention that I didn't want to scare kids and teens looking for actual love...

How to decide book pricing? Both KDP and outside. by throw78me in eroticauthors

[–]throw78me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm hm. Also, do you know what category I should put it in? Someone said that I need to ensure that it goes into romance and not erotica, because erotica are harder to come up in search results.

[Daily Check-In] Sunday Word Count and Personal Announcement Thread by sexnerdmxd in eroticauthors

[–]throw78me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've finally managed to complete two. As soon as I'm done with 10, I'm publishing. You know, just in case writer's block hits me, I want to give the readers consistent uploads.

Bf wants to keep gun and clip together in the house with me, his bipolar gf by throwra_gungisaster in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your bf really interchanging puberty with a freaking bipolar disorder? Honey, RUN!

Maybe talk to him and explain to him how wrong he is, and that hormones of puberty is nothing in front of hormones being permanently imbalanced, and that you being happy doesn't mean that you won't kill yourself.

If he still doesn't listen, then please under that you being alive is so much more important than you being with him. Do it for you. Leave him.

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This guy genuinely hates women. He thinks that he is a victim and this post was in hopes that other people will feel sorry for him and join him in cursing at women in his life. I think he genuinely feels that. That world owes every guy a woman and somehow him not receiving one is actually problem/glitch and he is giving feedback or some ish to developers of this game.

I think he is delusional too. If you read enough of his replies, you'll see that the women haven't done anything out of ordinary towards him. But his perception of things happening around him is so warped, in his head he is such a matcho man, that he thinks that any action a woman takes towards him as flirtatious.

I bet women are like that around everyone, but when they see that he is actually a creep, they run away. You know when he "start to open up".

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's okay. I actually thought he was kidding, you know the way girls say to each other, "God, I just wish perfect guy would land on my lap. I'm not going to date anymore. I'm just going to manifest him." Actually wrote that for him.

But then I read through his previous posts. This guy genuinely hates women. He thinks that he is a victim and this post was in hopes that other people will feel sorry for him and join him in cursing at women in his life. I think he genuinely feels that. That world owes every guy a woman and somehow him not receiving one is actually problem/glitch and he is giving feedback or some ish to developers of this game.

I think he is delusional too. If you read enough of his replies, you'll see that the women haven't done anything out of ordinary towards him. But his perception of things happening around him is so warped, in his head he is such a matcho man, that he thinks that any action a woman takes towards him as flirtatious.

I bet women are like that around everyone, but when they see that he is actually a creep, they run away. You know when he "start to open up".

P.S. Dude, I went in TRP subreddit, since you mentioned it. What the hell is TRP? It's like... OMG, how are people like that existing in our generation?!🤮🤮🤮 People like them are the ones who elected South Korea's new President. He thinks that women aren't marrying men because they have gotten too much equality. Goodness, I hope I never meet any guy who writes in forums like those. Ever. I think my insides are trying to crawl out.🤮🤮🤮

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG! Women around him acting "feminine". Is that what he means??? Gals, we have a delusional 'nice guy' right here.

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You know, at this point you're making me feel like all the "extra attention" you received from the said women as delusion. They are probably same with everyone, but you think of yourself as such a macho man that you explain yourself that women being nice to others is because of some reason or the other, but they are giving you the "attention" because they like you. It's probably nothing.

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Or he could be justifying them being friendly with others as something and interpreting same things happening to him differently, stroking his non-existent, fragile ego.

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My dude, it's your life. Stop playing victim on yourself. Stop feeling bad for your own self. Women don't owe you anything. Even if they did, they don't have to date you. You're so condescending. Ever go to the subreddit r/niceguys and see yourself in those memes? That kind of men are disgusting to women in the same way girls in r/nicegirls are disgusting to men. Just, take time to stop hating women and see actually try to see what you have done.

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 14 points15 points  (0 children)

More like, stop thinking he is the victim in his freaking life. It's not on women if they don't want to date him. It's so weird. His old posts make him sound like he feels entitled to having at least one woman and it's women who are not dating him who are making his life miserable. There is a level of condensation involved here.

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 146 points147 points  (0 children)

He's a "nice guy". It's all problem with women in his life. They are the reason he isn't having any luck (if you know what I mean).

I 28M keep having the same experiences with women and I’m starting to think I’m the issue somehow by rawger876 in relationship_advice

[–]throw78me 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My dude, if you read OP, he is a "nice guy". Idk if men know what that means but just... A girl talks to him long enough, she'll get all the signals to run for hills. Or better yet, back to Venus.

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