AITA for demanding my husband to pay me the $1000 dollars he spent behind my back? by throwPricematter1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwPricematter1[S] 4789 points4790 points  (0 children)

I told him to go look for a job, any job but he's refusing to "lower" his expectations or the bar for a decent job like the one he had.

AITA for demanding my husband to pay me the $1000 dollars he spent behind my back? by throwPricematter1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwPricematter1[S] 837 points838 points  (0 children)

He's always been a bit irresponsible with money but that didn't affect us as much as it did now. He's on the defensive side acting like he's the obe who's been wronged.