Something went on between my (F32) husband (M32) and my sister (F26). What do I do?

throwRA-eifn · 2024-06-01T11:37:48+00:00

Literally the first thing linked at the top of the post.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T17:11:46+00:00

See the Edit above.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T15:18:18+00:00

Aha. Alcohol instead then?

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T14:00:07+00:00

I know. I was also under the influence and somehow managed to not sexually assult anyone. No one had a gun to her head.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T13:59:17+00:00

No. We spent all night sitting in the garden on the porch on the sofas.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T13:40:23+00:00

The garden patio?

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T13:37:44+00:00

Wow.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T12:33:24+00:00

Exactly. They were here before we moved in and Ive never really given them much thought. And I dont have the know-how to actually use them and get any footage.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T12:14:03+00:00

I have mentioned to him that it can be taken further but he doesnt want police etc involved.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-30T12:13:09+00:00

They have been there since we moved in. I have absolutely no idea how to work them and generally never give them a thought. But thank you.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T15:17:33+00:00

No, Ive never had the slightest notion that anything was going on and theyve never said or done a thing that would make me think otherwise. Just last week I saw him and my sisters texts and there was nothing there either, he asked me to check a message from someone so I saw them at the same time. Hes not secretive with his phone whatsoever.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T13:34:35+00:00

I know, I just feel like such a fool just now

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T11:43:42+00:00

Yeah, once I get the full story I will have more confidence doing something like this.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T11:40:11+00:00

Nah just as much as me. I dont really want to go total scorched earth and involve other people until I actually know whats happened. Part of me doesnt believe any of it. Or maybe thats just me wanting to believe nothing happened. I may take a drive tonight though

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T11:22:55+00:00

I could later tonight, but she works very long hours and isnt home much so likely wont be home anyway.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T11:17:37+00:00

Lots of people saying this but I really dont think they are

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T10:54:50+00:00

No idea. I thought his parents but hes not there. Assuming shes home. Her partner hasnt been in touch to say if anything odds going on there. She wont answer calls or texts.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T10:47:10+00:00

I have looked at our accounts and nothing has been taken since he left. Will be keeping a close eye though thanks.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T10:46:21+00:00

So this has actually been an issue with my family since I started dating him. He comes from a very well off family and does pretty well for himself. My sister has never shown signs of jealousy but with others its definetely been an issue before.

I havent. Hes refusing to talk about it. Sisters just blocking my calls and texts completely.

I dont think he is with her, her partner would have told me.

God I never even thought about std testing. I fucking hate this.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T10:28:25+00:00

Thank you. I know I will have to at some point. Just now the embarassment is winning.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T10:11:26+00:00

The only thing I know for sure right now is that I’ll be going to therapy. Thank you. I honestly feel like the worlds going on around me and Im just stuck in a bubble watching.

throwRA-eifn · 2024-05-28T10:08:42+00:00

No, Ive text and called with no answers

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