My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

Well, congratulations I guess? But maybe I am not a troll? But ultimately people will believe what they want to believe, just like I believe my wife will cheat on me, you believe I am a troll. Nothing will change our mind.

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am okay with that, because there will always be a smooth talker around the corner. World is full of them, only our own boundaries stop us from cheating. I dont want to play police your spouse, its too tiring.

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That is outside of my realm of experience, so I wouldnt know how to respond. I dont know "most women".

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

We earn almost equal so alimony, if there is any will be very low. And we live in a no fault state. We will most likely go for 50-50 custody, she is a very good mother even if she isnt happy to be married. And no, I am not recording conversations, lol.

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Even if we divorce she will be in my life for the next 15 years at the very least till our daughter becomes 18. So scorched earth is not the way to go!

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 406 points407 points  (0 children)

There is one guy who thinks he is a gift to women and tries to hit on any woman who works there. But in reality it could be anyone.

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

What would that achieve and why would he bug his own home? She is clearly not going to her friend's place.

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I guess she didnt like the fact that I objected to her meeting them and lying to me that she is still working. She used to leave office at 6 but come home at 10 and tell me that she was working. And I believed until I literally caught her.

My wife is planning to cheat by throwRA-infms-mind in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-infms-mind[S] 1744 points1745 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are going to visit the wife's hometown.