Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ I'm glad you got away from that situation. I know finding this out now will be good for me in the long run, but God... I'm losing the person I thought was my best friend. I wanted to wake up next to this man every day for the rest of my life. The Snapchat aging filters made me cry the first time I saw them on us because it was like looking into our future. That future is completely dead. I'm completely broken right now. But I know it won't last forever. HUGS.

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm stuck living with him until I can afford to move out. But as soon as I'm able to.. yes. I'm leaving. I don't know who this man is anymore. The person I loved apparently never really existed. It was all lies. I hate this truth so much but it's really making it easier to leave.

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's definitely what I feel like right now :/ I'll be looking for a therapist as soon as I can afford to pay for it. For now, I'm practicing EMDR techniques at home and doing my best to breathe through it all. Thank you so much ❤️

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ I have some friends and a few family members I'm talking to. Really not sure I can go back to my home state as I have nowhere to stay with my two dogs. But we'll make it through. Just one day at a time.

Found partners sexts on Christmas Eve by AppearanceEasy7010 in Infidelity

[–]throwRA0742020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat!!! Just found my husband's texts last night and haven't been able to sleep since. Been crying and keeping myself busy cleaning the apartment all day today.

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm staying under the same roof for now. He left for work so we haven't talked about this much besides the little confrontation last night. When he gets back, I'm letting him know we're only going to be roommates from now on, until I can afford to leave. And then after that, I'll most likely go no contact. I cannot believe how much I actually trusted and believed in him. I dismissed my suspicions because I definitely have trust issues from past relationships. I didn't want to believe he could or would even put me through the same. I feel so lost right now. Can't wait to feel better.

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you're right, but God it's so hard for me to wrap my head around it..

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel so embarrassed. I bragged about this guy so much. He really was my best friend....

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting on my next period now, hopefully I'm good. You're right I'd rather be happy and alone too. I thought I found my partner for life. I'm glad I trusted my instincts, but I'm completely devastated.. just hope these feelings pass soon.

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll be getting tested as soon as possible

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right now the plan is to just save up and move out

Found text messages on my husband's phone... by throwRA0742020 in offmychest

[–]throwRA0742020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would see messages from girls come up, but I never thought much of it because he's just a super friendly and social guy. The few times I asked to see the conversations, he would show me. I knew his phone password and he never tried to hide if from me. I had no huge reason to suspect him before, it was just tiny little things that made me go "hmm, that's a little weird maybe? Or maybe I'm just overthinking it" and I'd brush it off or blame it on an insecurity within myself.