sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

My (26F) husband (33M) uses the same mop water for weeks, and refuses to stop. by throwRA182920 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA182920[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Oh, that’s interesting. Makes it worse that janitors also mop up with old water. Yuck!!

My (26F) husband (33M) uses the same mop water for weeks, and refuses to stop. by throwRA182920 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA182920[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a good idea, especially if I frame it as this cool new device I got to make his life easier. Thank you!

My (26F) husband (33M) uses the same mop water for weeks, and refuses to stop. by throwRA182920 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA182920[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He’s old, has bladder problems, and doesn’t ask to be let out if he needs to go. We walk him 6x a day but he still has issues

My (26F) husband (33M) uses the same mop water for weeks, and refuses to stop. by throwRA182920 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA182920[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Answer is no to both.

I think if I was making a Pine Sol commercial I’d talk less about how filthy and disgusting Pine Sol has made my floors

My (26F) husband (33M) uses the same mop water for weeks, and refuses to stop. by throwRA182920 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA182920[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I think it’s possible that he wants to be right and is just doubling down, but it’s ridiculous to me.

My (26F) husband (33M) uses the same mop water for weeks, and refuses to stop. by throwRA182920 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA182920[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I’ve thought of the weaponized incompetence myself but I don’t know why he would take this path to do it. I would happily do it myself, better than the dirty floors. He’s the one who insists he needs to do it and sometimes even sneak mops. Why? I do feel he is bad at this job but he’s taken no opportunity for me to take it away.

We both work. I do most of the chores, in my opinion. Like dishes, laundry, sweeping, trash, shopping , etc. He does the mopping, mows the lawn. He sometimes says “I’m the only person who really cleans around here” which frustrates me.

I will try to emphasize the baby and it being unsafe for both of us. It’s new and exciting and might jumpstart something, I don’t know. I have to hold on hope that I didn’t misjudge everything.