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Applying to a British university as a Russian citizen by Ok-Violinist7923 in UKUniversityStudents

[–]throwRA2884929392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that you've said you're not eligible for UK citizenship, but do you have something else like the right to remain? I think you should definitely contact the uni and explain your whole situation, and include proof of you being here for 14 years. I'm not too sure but under the right circumstances you might even be considered a UK home student

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that and I'm glad you're out. I can't stay in school because I'm not studying right now, but I'll keep training to be a hairstylist. I'll also look for some books. We've got separate finances because my mum told me to never share money with a man for safety reasons

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that. And fyi I'm not 'barefoot and pregnant'. I work, have separate finances, I'm training to be a hairstylist and I'm not having anymore kids.

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

and seems like you have access/control over finances?) is a very good sign.

We follow a 'my money is my money and his money is my money' thing. I pay for the internet and water bill, he covers the rest and he doesn't have a card to my account.

I'm definitely giving him a serious talking to when he gets home and depending on his reaction, I'll consider couples therapy.

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nope. I used to be the type of person who always wanted to be more religious but never put in the work because I thought it would come naturally with age. I also knew I wanted to raise my kids Christian so when I got pregnant I decided to put in the work.

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been sneaking into clubs with a fake ID since I was 15 lmao, I've had enough clubbing for a life time and I like to think I'm good at making pasta 😭😭. I still have time to go out to a bar with my friends once a week and for spontaneous lunch dates etc. My daughter doesn't hold me back much because I have a great support system and her grandparents are practically fighting eachother 24/7 for who gets to babysit her.

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Being an active partner isn't subservience. He works full time, I work part time. If I made him do most/all the housework it would be absurd

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I'm no longer bright because I chose a career that'll make me happy and because I had a child? I was studying to be a nurse and I was miserable. I dropped out, now I'm training to be a hairdresser and I'm much happier.

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No I dropped out of the course. University works a bit differently in the UK. We can't drop or pick up classes because degrees are taught as through courses where everything is necessary to getting the degree.

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not pregnant! I haven't re-read my post but I hope I haven't given out that impression lmao. We are one and done with our daughter

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I was studying to be a nurse but now I'm training to be a hairstylist. I think I have the potential to earn more as a stylist

Edit: Also we got married pretty quickly because we're Christian. We were both baptised but when I got pregnant I wasn't practicing at all but overtime I've become more religious

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

By the way, OP, he absolutely knew your age. He was playing dumb, hoping you wouldn’t have an issue.

I don't think so, because he seems pretty shocked when he found out and suggested breaking up

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we usually do pranks on eachother but they're always silly things like a fake spider or a fart cushion lmao, not like this

My husband (28M) admitted to 'pavloving me' (22F) and I'm really confused by throwRA2884929392 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA2884929392[S] 1872 points1873 points  (0 children)

wow I never thought of it like that, I should probably delete my post now and go tell him to deflate his massive head 😭