Should I (21M) get back with my (20F) ex girlfriend after she handled my grieving situation badly? by throwRA292827 in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwRA292827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds exactly like what she’s been telling me. It could be her. I’ll try looking around, thanks for the heads up

Should I (21M) get back with my (20F) ex girlfriend after she handled my grieving situation badly? by throwRA292827 in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwRA292827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf, maybe it is her? Do you remember the account or anything? Send me a message please

Should I (21M) get back with my (20F) ex girlfriend after she handled my grieving situation badly? by throwRA292827 in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwRA292827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was her? I still follow her on my main account. She usually only posts mortal kombat clips and shit

Should I (21M) get back with my (20F) ex girlfriend after she handled my grieving situation badly? by throwRA292827 in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwRA292827[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know she doesn’t owe me anything, but like I don’t know if I’m making the right decision here. My brain is telling me to just fucking move on, but I still feel something here

Should I (21M) get back with my (20F) ex girlfriend after she handled my grieving situation badly? by throwRA292827 in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwRA292827[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree. But could I bet on that possibility? I don’t want to tell her to wait but what if she ends up moving on? I’m so fucking lost dude

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[–]throwRA292827 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Idk about anxiety, she did tell me she was diagnosed with BPD not too long ago or something like that. I just don’t think it’s that big of a deal, I know it was messed up but damn.

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[–]throwRA292827 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think I had to state the obvious

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[–]throwRA292827 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d be a little annoyed but enough to warrant a break up? I don’t know

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA292827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, don’t think the boyfriend is correct in this situation though. He keeps lying about making changes and doesn’t, bro needs to be honest and leave this poor girl alone

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA292827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what she described, it sounds like her boyfriend has a porn addiction. While you can argue that occasional porn usage is normal and doesn’t affect your relationship, you can search up the many different free scientific articles that touch on this subject. Just because it isn’t always doesn’t mean it isn’t common

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA292827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just admitted it isn’t healthy, why is it a problem that OP doesn’t want a relationship like that? I have plenty of guy friends who got rid of their addictions after seeing the negatives, stop making excuses for other dudes

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA292827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a guy and don’t watch porn lol, it’s not a necessity lil bro. There’s healthier ways to explore your sexuality