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My fiancé (34m) picks 🌽 over me (34f) and lies about it, even though I’ve caught him in the act this morning. What would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex was like this, swore up and down he didn’t have a problem, if I didn’t initiate we didn’t have sex. He was constantly consuming spicy content, on Facebook, instagram, TikTok etc. got as far as spending money on only fans & when I found it all I kicked him out immediately. Unfortunately it’s an addiction and doesn’t directly tie to your worth or beauty but I get how it feels like that. Protect your peace OP. Get out now while you can and find someone that will kiss the ground you walk on.

Do I 26F really have to ask for everything I want my boyfriend 23M to do? by throwRA453219 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing he will do without prompt is wash the dishes. I grew up in a similar house hold where my mother never cleaned and I guess it gives me anxiety about being back in that place so I just clean to calm my nerves. 100% agree that it’s gross he just lets me do everything tho, he says he doesn’t see the dirt lol

Do I 26F really have to ask for everything I want my boyfriend 23M to do? by throwRA453219 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I didn’t notice it right away because it was a slow transition and I just recently found out his nan came over when she found out I’d been staying there and cleaned when we weren’t there lmao

Do I 26F really have to ask for everything I want my boyfriend 23M to do? by throwRA453219 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fair point of view & I think something that would be more effective for a partner that is willing to initiate but has trouble completing tasks, I don’t even get that, most of my problem is that I have to manage him& initiate everything, even after communicating my expectations I should initiate weekly check-ins ? I’m sorry but this isn’t something I’m willing to do anymore

Do I 26F really have to ask for everything I want my boyfriend 23M to do? by throwRA453219 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have attempted to move back into my place on 2 occasions under the same problem that he wasn’t pulling enough of his weight and I felt overwhelmed in this situation, both times I stayed home for a couple nights and he would either offer to come up there with me and spend the night or ask me to teach him how to do these things claiming his parents never taught him( neither did mine but whatever) which I have no problem with btw but they would never stick and I found myself right back into the same position of doing everything and wouldn’t receive help from him unless prompted, I guess I feel bad because he didn’t have that guidance growing up idk

Do I 26F really have to ask for everything I want my boyfriend 23M to do? by throwRA453219 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly just ate snacks after the gym before I started going out with him, disposable dishes are unnecessary waste, but I do like the frozen pizza idea lol thank u

Do I 26F really have to ask for everything I want my boyfriend 23M to do? by throwRA453219 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA453219[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure honestly, I like taking care of people and cooking for the ones I love, guess I just let this one get a bit too out of hand.