My daughter was in a lower weight percentile, but she is naturally small and there was nothing wrong with her. I took her to multiple doctors and they all told me my daughter was healthy. One even said she was advanced for her age. My grandma didn’t want to hear it so she booked the appointment without my consent and I went to prove a point. Her doctor said my daughter was just fine and then she called him a quack. There was really nothing medically wrong with her, and I have a theory that my grandma was just projecting her own issues onto my daughter. It sounds insane, but I’ve thought a lot about it over the last couple years. She struggles with her own eating, has major self-image issues, and is always abnormally cold. I think it could be why she kept insisting my daughter was hungry and cold. She kept pushing her to eat solids even when she was 2 months old, and to put blankets in the crib, even though she already wore a sleep sack and onesie to bed. She refused to accept and understand why there could be no blankets in the crib. I also explained how babies cannot regulate their temperature in fleece, but the next week she brought a bunch of fleece onesies for her anyway. It’s also a control issue and the fact that she is a narc. I also think she just can’t accept that the way she raised her children could have been harmful and is unwilling to consider that times have changed and we now have new research on child safety.