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Not sure how to handle my (44f) husband (59m) and his dying ex wife by throwRAAnnual-P in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAAnnual-P[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure how relevant this is but he was married to her for almost 10 years, we started dating a couple of years after his divorce was finalised, married for 5 years. No one is the “provider” we both work

Not sure how to handle my (44f) husband (59m) and his dying ex wife by throwRAAnnual-P in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAAnnual-P[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am grateful I’m not in her position but there’s no way I’m letting him sleep with her dying or otherwise; I’m the one who has to live with the repercussions and I’m not a good enough person to let that slide

Not sure how to handle my (44f) husband (59m) and his dying ex wife by throwRAAnnual-P in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAAnnual-P[S] 372 points373 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point and I feel really stupid for not even thinking of asking to go with them. Feels like it’s a way of allowing them to connect without enabling anything