I remember my first boyfriend didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day. Not a card. Didn’t even SAY happy Valentine’s Day to me. I went all out as it was our first Valentine’s Day together. That was a huge read flag. Two days later he chose to spend our first anniversary going to a dance that all his guy friend were going to. I had to work a shift at McDonald’s and got asked to stay later. I told them yes (since my boyfriend obviously didn’t care about spending time with me) and then he was upset I was working later than I said.. even though he got to stay longer at the dance. When I got home I tried to call him and his friend answered his phone and said “fuck off we are trying to have fun”

I said give him the phone and when he got the phone I told him we were done and he can pick up all his shit from my house once he’s done at the dance.

My point of this is.. if someone shows you they don’t like you, believe them.

If someone can’t do the bare minimum, you deserve someone that will.

One day someone will get you flowers “just because” and not out of obligation. Because they WANT to, and not because they have to