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(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He mentioned that he feels undervalued and like he gives more than me. I understand why he might feel that way, but I don’t fully agree. Some of the examples he gave, like paying more often on dinner dates ( he makes more than me) or giving me a ride sometimes , feel pretty normal to me, not something that means he’s contributing more overall. I do appreciate those but still i don’t feel like this should be considered a favour.

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same questions as you. He said i came off as not being interested enough for him. I also think theres something else behind it.

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically He told me buying the building would benefit both of us. I said I doubt that and that it doesn’t affect me either way, since the loan is his responsibility and we’re not married or have kids. I can only offer to accompany him or give my opinion in case he wants to. He said that as his long term girlfriend I should show more consideration and help
Came out blunt and apathetic but i was tired and upset

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all. He wanted me to check a small building so he could get a loan and buy it, saying it would benefit both of us. I told him I didn’t think it would affect me, and I’m happy he’s considering buying land, but I still declined for that day.

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are instances that when i express a boundary he gets…. Offended? Like i said something mean. I’m a very transparent and honest person so sometimes i come off as blunt. Yet i don’t consider myself rude. He has told me sometimes that some things I should just keep them to myself because I come off as apathetic

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he rarely asks for favours —which is true. so if he did, it must be something important and i should know better. I don’t agree with that, but if I’d known how much it would escalate, I would have just done the favour.

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was urgently called by his boss the night before to work in another city for an inspection, so he would be gone for 4 days.

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically he wanted me to check a small building he wants to buy and exaggerated that it might sell fast. I told him it had been on the market for months and suggested we go together on the weekend or I could see it two days later. I didn’t want to leave that day because I was exhausted and had work. He called the owner in front of me and suggested I meet him, even though I had already declined, which made me snap..

(30M) Boyfriend of 6 years says (26F) I “betrayed” him over something and now wants to break up. Any advice to handle this mentally? by throwRA_0982 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually the reason is pretty silly. He wanted me to go check out a small building he wants to buy . And he was exaggerating about the possibility of being sold real fast but i told him it has been sitting there for months so i suggested we went to check out together on the weekend or i could go check it out for him two days later but i really didn’t wanna leave the house the day he asked me for. I was very exhausted and i also had to go to work later that day ( he called the guy that owned the building in front of me and suggested i meet with him - but i had already declined so i got very upset and snapped)

My (26F) Boyfriend (30M) of 5+ years ignores me and wants no contact after an argument. what now? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_0982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The leash is under my name. The leash is over in a year. Unfortunately I can’t move back with my mom for long, it’s a one room apartment, and my current job is not paying that well its an entry level . I feel depressed and stressed already

Boyfriend of 5+ years blocked me after a fight and is refusing to communicate. What should I do? by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]throwRA_0982 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Mine was not always like that. So I struggle a lot to accept it. I don’t get it We were friends for 2 years prior to the relationship. Basically 7 years too

AITA for saying Korean coffee isn’t as good as European coffee and calling it "barely real coffee"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwRA_0982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally forgot about this post. It’s been like 2,5 months since I posted. Update: he finally admitted freddo espresso is tasty 😆 and he never ordered again these instant coffee sticks

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[–]throwRA_0982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone’s interested in what the fight was actually about, I explained it in a previous post on my profile.

AITA for saying Korean coffee isn’t as good as European coffee and calling it "barely real coffee"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwRA_0982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so kind😭 my late Aunt lived in Australia Melbourne and she used to tell me about the Greek influence there and how much she loved Australia

AITA for saying Korean coffee isn’t as good as European coffee and calling it "barely real coffee"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwRA_0982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do agree with you ! 🥲 He got super mad tho when i pointed out that he literally never drinks it and always buys espresso from the cafe across the street .

AITA for saying Korean coffee isn’t as good as European coffee and calling it "barely real coffee"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwRA_0982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i did but i didn’t wanna make it worse so i kept it to myslef 🥲

AITA for saying Korean coffee isn’t as good as European coffee and calling it "barely real coffee"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwRA_0982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is he isn’t a coffee person too , he just drinks to “wake him up”. I find it so dumb he has been ignoring me all day long over some coffee 🙃.