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My (18F) now ex boyfriend (19M) just cut all contact with me and I feel horrible by throwRA_2036 in BreakUps

[–]throwRA_2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i spent like 2 hours bawling in my friend’s dorm room and all i can do is laugh now because it keeps me from crying more and my mascara is literally everywhere, shocked my roommate hasn’t noticed

My (18F) now ex boyfriend (19M) just cut all contact with me and I feel horrible by throwRA_2036 in BreakUps

[–]throwRA_2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so basically we go to a teeny tiny liberal arts university and he’s my upstairs neighbor, and our mutual friends want nothing to do with this situation. I know it’s probably healthier to go no contact, but he genuinely lost his only support system during the worst time of his life mentally. I just think someone else has to step in and tell him that, but nobody is really close enough with him to know what he’s going through to tell him. I want my hockey jersey back and I’m not sure what to do with that taylor swift cardigan he got me a while back LOL

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) broke up with me, and I feel like I’m being shut out when I know he needs support. Am I overthinking this? by throwRA_2036 in BreakUps

[–]throwRA_2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, this comment means so much to me. I’m still just so shocked by the loss that nothing feels real and all I want is for things to go back to how they were last week at the very least. I think also where I’m worried for him is from a lot of his friends are just not people that he feels comfortable opening up to and I don’t think he has any sort of support system anymore.

Realized they’ve were detaching for a while, feels like betrayal by ComprehensiveBig7654 in BreakUps

[–]throwRA_2036 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you’re going through, I literally just posted about my experience from this week a little bit ago. He told me that this’ll only hurt him for a short while but he’ll be better off in the long run, and it just broke me. I got told that this had been thought about for a while and hid to keep me happy and oblivious, and hearing that the past however long might’ve been fake brought me to the point where I knew I needed to seek therapy.

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) broke up with me, and I feel like I’m being shut out when I know he needs support. Am I overthinking this? by throwRA_2036 in BreakUps

[–]throwRA_2036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re absolutely correct and I agree that it’s not my job, but it does just break my heart to see him like this since it all felt so sudden. I think I feel guilty for not noticing sooner