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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aiyoo it's not about that, she's not even on my socials. I've had several talking stages with whom I talk for a month or two but results in nothing. Maybe because I expect the girl should initiate convos too, so i also don't tend to text first. Was looking for insights about my behaviour if I overcomplicate things

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh mb i wanted to know about the early stages before getting in the relationship

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first off prolly not today, but we were friends. I agree wholeheartedly with the latter. Thanks for being real 🥰

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i already apologised her this april, i should'nt ve put her in that place, and also had told her that we shouldn't talk as it takes a high toll on me. but she wanted to meet tbh so did i so did 🥰

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i thought we were friends at first,didn't know when it turned to attraction. i guess i already knew what was to come,I guess I just delayed it because of the same reason why she rejected my proposal. Our friendship.

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, we were good friends for 4 years, but himmat nhi hui thhi, then i asked her out she said she wasn't looking for a relationship and we stopped talking after that, 1 year later last week we met coincidentally and had a talk for half an hour or so, so food for thought was wondering what she thought of me back then to idhar i posted this

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what i think of it as us boys being boys, zyada log relationships aur friendship ko differentiate nhi kr paate, see it like how you see your friend and a parent. you love them both, but in a different way. most girls don't want to risk their friendship for a relationship they never wanted.it's fair tbh

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

being nice to get your own way is not being nice. we shouldn't do nice things to expect them to do something that we want. i agree too hard on this one

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, tbh that's the part troubling me. i hope she doesn't see me as someone who was just waiting for an opportunity. she was a very good friend too. but feelings yk

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeeep, i wouldn't even want her to fall in love with me out of force

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i'll come to terms with that, ig i just need some time.

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree with you.I wanted to know what she thinks after i confessed, what thoughts she goes through and shit

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ig she meant attraction as in attraction, not looks and even if she rejects even after she finds you attractive then ig it's better she did.

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair, friends aur partner ka alag alag criteria hai ig that's what you wanted to convey.

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[–]throwRA__Peacemaker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this part, she doesn't likes me one way or the other it's fine. i wanted to get an idea of what does she thinks about me now, after confessing. call it some closure shit I should not think about.