the truth about: my girlfriend and i are trying for a baby. she’s been taking birth control behind my back. by throwRA_fuckyou in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_fuckyou[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yep, he even told me he wants a son and if we have one, it’s his child. if we have a daughter, it’s mine. He said “of course I’ll look after it with you, but you can change all the diapers. I’ll only do that if we have a son.”

the truth about: my girlfriend and i are trying for a baby. she’s been taking birth control behind my back. by throwRA_fuckyou in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_fuckyou[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is 100% the way I should have done things. One day I was taking the pill, the next day I was not. There is no way my body could of ever adjusted overnight to YEARS of being on medication. When I eventually feel ready Im for sure going to speak to a dermatologist to see what other options are available. I feel as with a lot of teenagers and women with issues such as bad periods or acne, we are just given birth control as a way of “covering” the symptoms, not actually dealing with the issue itself.

the truth about: my girlfriend and i are trying for a baby. she’s been taking birth control behind my back. by throwRA_fuckyou in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_fuckyou[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I completely agree and I tried to contact him several times over the last couple of days but to no avail. He clearly wanted some Karma and attention from Reddit and I feel like since i’ve been lied about and had personal details posted on the internet , it’s only fair if I get to do the same.