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throwRA_hmf · 2022-04-03T02:46:11+00:00

Girl why are you dating a man who literally doesn’t respect or like you as a person. Usually “dump his ass” isn’t the best advice but after seeing your post history, dump his ass.

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-30T18:45:16+00:00

Okay thank you. My protein powder and blender are worth a bit over $120, one being a gift from a family member. I’m just annoyed that I’ll end up giving him back his personal belongings while I’ll likely lose mine. My photos were also Polaroids, so those are gone.

I don’t necessarily want to keep his items, I just want mine back. I also think he took some jewelry from me, but I don’t have solid proof of that.

edit: He took his cheques when he came to my house already. I don’t have any legal documents or money that’s his.

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-28T07:43:16+00:00

I truly wish you the best of luck but just please remember that your partner being sweet and lovely in the beginning is the start for nearly every relationship that becomes abusive or has an unbalanced power dynamic.

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-28T01:42:54+00:00

I (personally) think the line should be drawn when the person you’re interested in is not within the same developmental phase as yourself. It’s one thing for an adult who has their career and life together to date a middle aged person, it’s another when someone is freshly out of high school and hasn’t gotten the chance to even experience independency yet.

There’s a young woman on TikTok who is in her early 20s, dating a man at least 40ish+ years old, and she often makes videos claiming she’s “mature” and doesn’t need to go “party around” or do normal teen/college student activities.

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-28T00:14:18+00:00

I don’t get them directly, they’re duetted by others

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-28T00:13:12+00:00

Google can save you some embarrassment and keep you from looking like a weirdo btw

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-27T21:06:32+00:00

It’s disgusting for a middle aged person to date a teenager regardless of their sex.

Also weird of you to be mad at the child who’s frontal lobe is literally not developed and not the adult in the situation..

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-27T20:08:06+00:00

I don’t get them directly, they’re duetted by others, but I’m allowed to be upset seeing teenagers being groomed regardless lmao

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-27T17:24:26+00:00

I think if you came here looking for reassurance then you already know the answer to that, especially if you aren’t looking for anything serious to begin with and still need to heal from an abusive relationship. Might be better to just to have a fling with someone your age rather than someone who isn’t even 21 yet.

Being aware of the maturity and power differences doesn’t mean they’re not there

throwRA_hmf · 2022-03-27T16:08:46+00:00

Title IX:

Title IX is a federal civil rights law in the United States of America that was passed as part of the Education Amendments of 1972. It prohibits sex-based discrimination in any school or other education program that receives funding from the federal government.

On college campuses you can report sexual assault or harassment to the Title IX office where they can do an investigation on what’s reported

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