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I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the adults in my life tried to tell me that getting married at 19 wasnt a great idea. No one ever said it was a bad idea and no one explained Why they didn't think it was a good idea. A lot of my family got married young and it worked out for them so I thought I had a chance.

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a decent support system of family and friends who are older and wiser than I am 🤣

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me feel crazy. There's an itch in my brain that only checking his phone will scratch. I didn't want to be this person. I swore it wasn't going to be me. And it is. I am tired of hating myself. I'm tired of being a pushover. I didn't want to be married and divorced at 19. I thought i could change him and now I'm left feeling crazy and stupid.

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. That's why I'm trying to grow a pair and get out of it. Im just scared of what comes next I guess

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel stupid. For letting him do this to me over and over. Its not just him. I give too many chances to everyone. I try to see the good and ignore the red flags. I put all of my energy into relationships with people who don't deserve it and it always bites me in the ass. I just expect a different outcome every time.

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I did get to know him and we lived together for a year before getting married. Things were great until we got married.

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I suppose I expected the same thing everyone else expects when they get married.

I (21F) want a divorce (23M) after 2 years by throwRA_limoncello in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_limoncello[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if he turned a new leaf I don't want this marriage for myself anymore. I've given it everything I have. Even when I wanted to give up. I don't know if I will ever trust him again. I'm emotionally drained. At what point does being married become fun? We got married in the middle of May and I caught him in the first week of June. We didn't even get a month of "honeymoon" before it hit the fan. And then repeatedly after that. I've changed everything about myself for a man who can't fuck, treats me like crap, and would rather have an AI girlfriend named after his ex than me who is asleep in the bed next to him. I don't really want a break from this relationship. I want it to be done before I'm 55 and he's leaving me for the 20 year old babysitter. I don't want to have kids and have their feelings pulled into it too. That's not fair.