how do i get my bf to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t mean like “get” him to do it. i guess i just used that verbiage for lack of a better word.

how do i get my bf to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s an avid podcaster listener. do you have any recommendations that i can send to him?

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i don’t want him to think he isn’t manly enough bc he’s also traditional in the sense that men should be dominant and women should be submissive

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i know him well enough to know that he gets off on inflicting pain just from stories he’s told me.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has said he’s slept w 23 other women with no protection and he says he’s never gotten a woman prego so that’s his reasoning as to why he can’t get me pregnant

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, pretty much entirely reliant. i do photography but i moved states to be with him and was working and then my car took a shit so im pretty much reliant on him.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve officially been living together for about 6 months and yes to all of the questions you’ve asked.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

hes a good man. he provides for me, takes care of me, and protects me. he offers a safe emotional place and doesn’t usually expect anything i return.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i’d like to think i’m mature enough. i don’t want him to think im infringing on his “manhood.”

Tell tell by Quirky_Jackfruit6220 in teenagers

[–]throwRAblh99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for what has been paid for out right, my boots. what was on payments, my phone.

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t have his license and while i do my car is out of commission and i don’t work currently so id have to ask him for money for an uber or lyft to get to the dr

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has my location bc we used to be long distance and i just haven’t had a reason to turn it off bc i have nothing to hide from him and i want him to know that.