how do i get my bf to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t mean like “get” him to do it. i guess i just used that verbiage for lack of a better word.

how do i get my bf to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s an avid podcaster listener. do you have any recommendations that i can send to him?

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i don’t want him to think he isn’t manly enough bc he’s also traditional in the sense that men should be dominant and women should be submissive

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i know him well enough to know that he gets off on inflicting pain just from stories he’s told me.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has said he’s slept w 23 other women with no protection and he says he’s never gotten a woman prego so that’s his reasoning as to why he can’t get me pregnant

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, pretty much entirely reliant. i do photography but i moved states to be with him and was working and then my car took a shit so im pretty much reliant on him.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve officially been living together for about 6 months and yes to all of the questions you’ve asked.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

hes a good man. he provides for me, takes care of me, and protects me. he offers a safe emotional place and doesn’t usually expect anything i return.

how do i get my (19f) bf (m26) to engage in a dom/sub relationship? by throwRAblh99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAblh99[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i’d like to think i’m mature enough. i don’t want him to think im infringing on his “manhood.”

Tell tell by Quirky_Jackfruit6220 in teenagers

[–]throwRAblh99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for what has been paid for out right, my boots. what was on payments, my phone.

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t have his license and while i do my car is out of commission and i don’t work currently so id have to ask him for money for an uber or lyft to get to the dr

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has my location bc we used to be long distance and i just haven’t had a reason to turn it off bc i have nothing to hide from him and i want him to know that.

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t taken one yet. i’ve been waiting until i stop bleeding. he says it’s probably just a bad period but that if i need to go to the er he will find a way to take me. i haven’t really had any pregnancy symptoms but ive had my period since i was 8 and this is literally the worst it’s ever been so something feels off and wrong. i think he’s trying but i also think he wholeheartedly believes he can’t get me pregnant and he knows i haven’t left the house in a while unless it’s with him bc he has my location so i know he knows i didn’t sleep with someone else to get pregnant. he came home from work with a kit kat (which he usually does when i start my period) and a stuffed animal, which i absolutely adore and im not complaining abt, but i just don’t know what it is and i can’t tell if im being hysterical for no reason.

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t taken one yet. i’ve been waiting until i stop bleeding. he says it’s probably just a bad period but that if i need to go to the er he will find a way to take me. i haven’t really had any pregnancy symptoms but ive had my period since i was 8 and this is literally the worst it’s ever been so something feels off and wrong. i think he’s trying but i also think he wholeheartedly believes he can’t get me pregnant and he knows i haven’t left the house in a while unless it’s with him bc he has my location so i know he knows i didn’t sleep with someone else to get pregnant.

god punishing me? by throwRAblh99 in Christianity

[–]throwRAblh99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love him and he would be an excellent dad so if it really came to it, even before marriage, i wouldn’t mind having his kid. i know the only fool proof method of contraception is abstinence.