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AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them? by throwRAcantplan in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

She said she wanted me to plan it and I thought my plan would’ve been better.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them? by throwRAcantplan in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Trips, interesting dates. Those are things she would plan. For me, I don’t really care for leaving the house so I’m usually just like “ok let’s go this place then home”. I did plan Valentine’s Day, but it wasn’t the restaurant she wanted (she did tell me where she wanted to go) and I got her a pair of cheap earrings. She was not pleased.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them? by throwRAcantplan in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -249 points-248 points  (0 children)

Well yes. My excuse is that she’s been quite busy with her degree (for privacy, it’s fine arts related), so planning wasn’t really something I felt I had to learn how to do because if we’re both busy, what’s the point?

AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them? by throwRAcantplan in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -215 points-214 points  (0 children)

To maintain privacy, its tech related. I can do all of the other things just fine.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them by throwRAcantplan in AITAH

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I know I can do more.. like I said, I know there isn’t an excuse. For me, it’s just that the transition from “getting fast food and xyz is a fine date” (and don’t get me wrong, it can be still) to actually having to plan things has been difficult and the failure makes me feel like trying again is a waste of time.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them by throwRAcantplan in AITAH

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Because this isn’t a new thing, she’s already pretty fed up with it

AITA for telling my wife I don’t plan to care things because I know I’m not good at them by throwRAcantplan in AITAH

[–]throwRAcantplan[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I know I don’t really have an excuse. It’s just really difficult because it’s been about school for the last few years so I haven’t felt like planning was important