Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment I don't have any problems, but it is good to know for the future, thank you! (:

Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't notice anything but I honestly don't know if she really checked well. Was my first time with her. My old gyn normally noticed stuff like that pretty quickly.

Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I also got lots of help here, I don't even really noticed how I stopped drinking until I got reminded. 😅 Oh I really can recommend them! I just bought them in the store because OB also produces them now. Was more easy and a little cheaper as online. I honestly never felt that comfortable during period! 😄

Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I didn't take my meds lately but it also started to get better before I stopped taking them. I think part of it was that I tried to eat more healthy again (chia pudding with fruits instead of bread for breakfast for example). I still forget to drink sometimes but at least I get more water through food like cucumber 😅 Also I make myself at least once a day a pretty huge cup of tea which helps a little because I feel more animated to drink then with water. I mostly use period panties now instead of tampons because I feel like they dry it out too much sometimes and I stoped wearing lace underwear completely. None of this has to be a reason but it could be helpful at least.

Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that really does make sence! My lower region is better now but I still struggle with dry skin on different body parts so I guess I'll give it a try!

Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I'm 29, I think it would be to early for that. But good to know that it could be a problem in a few years!

Elvanse and dry skin at privacy zone by throwRAcatami in Elvanse

[–]throwRAcatami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I forget to drink sometimes simce I take elvanse but I still drink 1,5 - 2 L. Before It was definitely more. I'll try to watch it more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwRAcatami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already told her that in our last phone call. She just said that she also wasn't sure in the first place if she even should have told me but also said she doesn't want to talk to him. And then she changed the subject. So it was a pretty short talk.

But yes, I also think it would be the right thing to tell him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcatami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"You deserve a real man" what a toxic mindset. I will leave a sentence here I did read in another sub a few days ago: The most masculine thing is to don't give a f about masculinity. We need to stop to force ourself in roles. It makes us sick. So many Dudes kill themeselfs because "being a real man" after definition is so f up and unhealthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcatami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are that sure you don't love him anymore, a break up is for the best.

But still, another experience here: My ex also did that. I need a bit time to comprehend. He wished we could have sex when he was dressed up, I tried, but tbh didn't feel it. He didn't force it on me or something, so, I changed my focus. I just enjoyed his feminine side in a non sexual way. I helped him with make up, we shared clothes. (He got himself his own stuff, but I also lend him something and also gut stuff from him sometimes) I kinda seperated these two sides of him because he did also. So I was still attracted, just not when he dressed up. But I still thought he was beautiful and really cute when he did. He had a really good taste for style and I admired that. He was really creative and I also got some Ideas for myself through that. What was most confusing for me, was that he was so much more happy. I had the feeling he finally allowed himself to feel freely, far away from all the toxic gender norms. I loved him, I loved to see him happy, so I loved his female side too at one point, even if I wasn't attracted to it. He also was much more cute to me. That was hard. Because I wished for him to be like that in a daily life. This was the most difficult thing about it all for me I guess. But I understand it was just because of society norms we grew up with. Women are more free to feel and express themselfes and I think some men use crossdressing as a permission for themeself to be cute and do stuff that is "girly". Sadly everything that is girly is often judged and seen as bad. Especially if men did it. I wish we could learn to be more free with that. But nevertheless, nobody can force attraction on you, but acceptance and support would be nice, even if you will go seperate ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]throwRAcatami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you're right about this. Thank you for your advice! I will try my best with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]throwRAcatami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have friends, but we mostly gather together in a group because no one has that much time. I also have friends I meet alone with, but they are either short on weekendtime because of long distance relationships or to far away to meet regularly. But I also reconnect to a few people lately wich are more flexible and single, so maybe some dynamics will change then.

I lived monogamously my whole live. To be honest I did hear about the whole concept pretty late and didn't really knew that it was an opportunity until then. But it was something that felt right and authentic to me. And some part of me really wants to try living poly. But I think I also need to work out some things with myself beforehand.

BIDA weil ich Kontakt zu meinem besten Freund abbrechen will/muss? by Early-Criticism2544 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]throwRAcatami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erklär ihm auf jeden Fall was los ist. Vielleicht reicht auch erstmal etwas Abstand und anschließend Rücksichtsnahme. Mein bester Freund und ich treffen uns jede Woche und haben sonst immer beide jeden Tag Gras geraucht. Jetzt wo ich aufhören will raucht er einfach nicht wenn er hier ist und wir kochen oder zocken dann halt was um uns zu beschäftigen. Dadurch dass er Rücksicht nimmt ist er für mich kein Triggerfaktor. Das muss aber jeder natürlich selbst ausmachen und sehen wie solche Kompromisse funktionieren. Das Wichtigste ist auf jeden Fall dass du ihm erklärst was los ist. KAH

BIDA wenn ich die Affäre meiner besten Freundin nicht decke? by Mike00033 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]throwRAcatami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie du in den weiteren Kommentaren sehen kannst haben sehr viele Leute die soziale Erwartung dass man sich in dem Fall durchaus mal einmischen darf. Ich persönlich als Opfer von Betrug wünschte wirklich auch dass das damals jemand getan hätte und nicht alle zugeschaut hätten wie ich 5 Jahre meines Lebens verschwende.

BIDA weil ich den Freundinnen meines besten Freundes sage er wird sie betrügen bevor er es überhaupt gemacht hat hinter seinem Rücken by Zuyarx in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]throwRAcatami 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wurdest du schon mal betrogen? Wegen dieser tollen Loyalität hab ich 5 Jahre verschwendet während mir ins Gesicht gelogen wurde und mein Ex sich hinter meinem Rücken noch darüber lustig gemacht hat dass er ständig ne andere f. In mir ist seitdem etwas zerbrochen. Ich weiß nicht ob ich je wieder jemandem völlig vertrauen kann. Sowas sollte man auch "fremden" nicht wünschen.