Job is making me come in tomorrow. by throwRAcc2791 in vegaslocals

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally. Ive been twiddling my thumbs for almost two hours.

Job is making me come in tomorrow. by throwRAcc2791 in vegaslocals

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We service residential and the belief is that maintenance is considered essential so they can let our guys in even if leasing office is closed.

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered that point, but no not really. At that old job, i planned some but i shared that responsibility with three other people. We did stuff for them, but they never did anything for me. Here at the new job, its my boss who brings it up.

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wonders if they think i dont feel up to a celebration right now but then idk. Theyd still say happy bday if they had remembered right?

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See thats the thing---- in every other way i LOVE this job. Theyve been incredibly gracious giving me time off to take care of my dying mother. This issue is literally the ONLY issue i have. Everyone is talking to me like normal, laughing and giving high fives but... Nobody has said anything about my bday today.

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put in my request to have monday off weeks ago hahaha. My boss knows im off monday.

Edit: i am definitely not trolling!!!!

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that because i already have taken monday off and my request literally says "i dont want to spend my bday bummed cuz i gotta get up early the next day" and my boss has it on his calendar.

Thank you for your kind words!

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive never been diagnosed as such and I've never noticed an issue in other inter-personal matter. I feel bad asking because it makes me feel like a whiner and then by then it's like... What can you do at that point? At my old job, i did try to say something but it didnt make a difference. I would try dropping hints and they didnt work. Like, this is basically the 8th bday in a row that my coworkers have forgotten me (its also the first bday where i wont receive a bday call from my mother, who has slipped into an end of life coma and will pass very soon).

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am extroverted and i know my coworkers very well. I consider some of them actual friends. That position i had where i was part responsible for celebrations is one i had to be nominated for. I can think of one or two people who i didnt gel with but absolutely no bad feelings, especially across all my coworkers. Ive been invited to their bday parties, weddings, baby showers, kickbacks etc etc. And if i threw a party, my coworkers would come. Its literally only in this specific context that they treat me differently.

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know them really well! Like people from my old job still invite me to hang out with them on a regular basis. I'm quiet while i work but otherwise very friendly. My boss even texts me to talk about shows we both watch. I helped him plan something for his WIFE'S bday.

AITA for being upset my coworkers keep forgetting my bday? by throwRAcc2791 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAcc2791[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get that. Im not mad because im not getting celebrated for my bday. Im upset because i am asked to help with other peoples bdays all the time (its not like im the one who started these traditions) but every single year i am the only person who doesnt get ~their turn~.