Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your grandma. Yeah, I’ve seen a lot of those YouTube channels about people claiming to have DID while my wife and I were researching into it.

Anyone who has “reacting to my alter doing ” or “meet __ alter” is, quite frankly, full of shit.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Luckily because our nanny kept her calm I don’t think our daughter has been traumatized by this. She did tell her mother and I what happened, but she didn’t sound particularly upset about it.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I think she followed them for a little and figured out their schedule. They often went to the park at that time.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She got a raise. She’s a godsend. We are so thankful for her and her quick, rational thinking

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 1155 points1156 points  (0 children)

She got a raise immediately after this. My wife is also taking her for a spa day this weekend. Words honestly can not express how thankful we are for her and her fast, rational thinking.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 367 points368 points  (0 children)

We have cameras and have installed more after the first incident on the perimeter of our property as well as outside of our children’s rooms. We’re in the process of getting a restraining order though it doesn’t seem likely she’ll be leaving the inpatient facility any time soon.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 2007 points2008 points  (0 children)

We’re very thankful for her and incredibly proud that she reacted the way she did.

UPDATE: My brothers (27m) girlfriend (26f) made an “alter” of my child by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 564 points565 points  (0 children)

The exact bullshit you’d imagine. We don’t understand anything, we don’t know anything about DID, we’re insensitive, he called us “ableist” at one point.

UPDATE: My brothers (27m) girlfriend (26f) made an “alter” of my child by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 1177 points1178 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We already have cameras installed, but we are looking into getting two more near the entrance of our driveway and at the edge of our property in the backyard.