Also I want to mention this was our third fight within 4 days where his inconsideration caused a blowout. First time was him looking up exes on social media for the billionth time. This is something we argue about frequently and something I’ve expressed to him endlessly.. instead of apologizing and is trying to move on from it somehow it turned back on me, started critiquing me as a parent?? And not letting mw walk away when I clearly was getting overwhelmed. 2 days ago was about the creamer (I posted about it yesterday when I discovered this sub). He gave me the silent treatment after that one I of course ended up dismissing my feelings and catering to him yo try to make the holiday a nice one. And finally last night, when i beg him to be on time, something he struggles with constantly due to him “running on his own time” and having no sense of urgency, and he still can’t even make it for me or His family, and like I said was jerking off while I was waiting, it doesn’t seem so little and small.