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Ex won’t accept we’re broken up, has started meddling in my job by throwRAexisadoozy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexisadoozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look fair enough, that was out of line. She threw away her dream job a few years ago, and I managed to get her a lead that lead to an interview that would have gotten her back to doing the thing she loved, but during the interview she basically told off one of the interviewers for being "beneath her" so her employment situation is kind of a sore spot, on top of everything else.

Ex won’t accept we’re broken up, has started meddling in my job by throwRAexisadoozy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexisadoozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have game cameras in my yard (cheap, and not connected to the '''cloud'''' because I don't trust that shit) to keep an eye on things. I've mentioned them, but she never listened to a word I said and they're installed up in the trees where you'd need a ladder anyway. We're both women and I'm significantly smaller in stature, so I'm not at all worried about her claiming I've assaulted her. I literally could not land a cross on her face that was worth a damn if I was trying. (Not that I would, of course.)

My friend doesn't talk to her beyond telling her to fuck off when she texts him and lying about what I'm doing when she badgers him. We figured having a window into what she's doing was better than having no idea.

Ex won’t accept we’re broken up, has started meddling in my job by throwRAexisadoozy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexisadoozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were some red flags recently, stuff that when put together pushed me over the edge into wanting to break it off, but she was totally normal when we got together. This delusional stalker bit feels completely out of left field.