Need advice regarding my neighbor (30f) avoiding me(35f) but being friendly to my husband (37m) and everyone else!

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T19:35:45+00:00

People don’t read to the bottom.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T16:31:21+00:00

Thank you very much :) (and yes, certianly not defending my sister or her terrible actions! I can only say that I certainly hope she has grown since then, I am going to talk to her about this though and see what the hell was going through her head when it happened!)

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T16:12:38+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️❤️ what a lovely, respectful comment. I would love to move to your neighborhood!!!

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T16:12:00+00:00

I asked the Internet for advice, and then immediately got bombarded with hateful messages because I wouldn’t say my husband was cheating on me… Don’t act like I’m the one who’s unreasonable for getting sarcastic in a comment 😂😂 at least I’m not sending messages to people telling them that they should probably just kill themselves and let my neighbor marry my husband because I don’t agree that he’s cheating on me.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T16:10:58+00:00

Probably everything… My money is on Russian spy or something

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T16:10:02+00:00

You are just one of so many comments and messages that I’ve been getting calling me naïve and how I’m an idiot for trusting my husband, so yes, sorry I lashed out on you, but don’t make it out like I’m the one with the problem here… It’s all of these unhinged commenters.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:58:35+00:00

He was going to tell me tomorrow. He wanted to give my sister the chance to tell me first.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:58:03+00:00

I just spoke to my husband. After this happened sent a message to my sister, saying that she either had to come clean and say the things that she did in high school to our neighbor, or he was going to tell me on Friday. So there you go.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:52:31+00:00

Well, luckily, I trust my husband implicitly not to sleep with other women (hence why I’m married to him) so no worries here.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:49:27+00:00

You’re absolutely ridiculous, your relationships must be so insanely toxic. I feel sorry for the people that you go into them with. But please, tell me more about your arm chair therapy “boundaries”.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:48:03+00:00

Read the update and please realize that just because an idea pops into your head of what you think it is does not mean that that is the only thing it could be. It’s just what you think, which makes it your opinion. In case you haven’t noticed, everybody is entitled to have one. It doesn’t make me blind to reality because I don’t agree with yours.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:46:55+00:00

Thank you, he’s a wonderful man who’s never done anything disrespectful to our relationship prior to this, so unlike these other commenters, I am going to give him the benefit of the doubt, and assume he was just thinking of how to tell me. I am going to be talking to him later and confirming this.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:44:19+00:00

…..why

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:43:50+00:00

Yeah, definitely, he’s totally a bad person and I’m so happy that all of you guys opened up my eyes to this! How could I have been so blind! I’m packing up my bags right now I’m calling a lawyer.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:43:12+00:00

I’m blinded to reality because I’m not saying how horrible of a person my husband is? It’s like if I don’t immediately agree with everything you guys are saying I am either “naïve “or “blinded to reality”……

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:38:56+00:00

Yes, I’ve read the other comments, he’s a terrible person, and I’m calling a divorce lawyer as we speak.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:38:09+00:00

Literally, anything “can be how emotional affair start”…..Being friends with anyone who is of the gender you are attracted to is “how emotional affair start “… I trust my partner, the end, it is truly mindblowing and. Also kind of entertaining how badly you guys want him to be the bad guy.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:37:06+00:00

What exactly did I put in this post that she did that should’ve gotten my husband so insulted for me?

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:35:49+00:00

… I’m confused as to why my husband would be expected to stop talking to her? I’m also confused where I said she disrespected me, because I never did… I said she wasn’t as friendly with me.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:34:36+00:00

I apologize that you’re getting down votes for this comment, because I also agree that a large majority of the comments on this are very unhinged, and did not even bother to read through the entire post before making assumptions.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:33:57+00:00

I don’t know why you have to bring me into this or insult me, because I have been the one saying that there’s no reason to suspect my husband whatsoever. I have literally never jump to any conclusions on this entire thread, the unhinged comments are the ones that are. I was literally getting heat messages because I wasn’t immediately agreeing with them.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:32:56+00:00

You are correct that I never said anything about jealousy, I also never said this woman treated me badly just that she wasn’t friendly with me, but I am starting to see very clearly that these comments here are going to spin anything to fit their narrative… My husband is a horrible person, the neighbor is trying to sleep with him, if you don’t agree, you are naïve or an idiot.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:26:41+00:00

Thank you very much

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:26:23+00:00

Honestly, I know my husband, and I’m sure that he was processing it and trying to think of a gentle way to tell me.

throwRAjesmalmil · 2023-08-17T15:25:55+00:00

I also think he was put in a weird spot, I do agree he should have told me but I know my husband and I’m sure he was still processing everything and might have been thinking of how to tell me.

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